The Finale (#50)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell
1y ago
1:04- behind the scenes: podcast stats - number of countries, downloads and fan favourite episodes.   6:11 - We're putting the podcast on hold indefinitely.   9:54 - Mark's favourite episode: Chris Marhefka.   14:38 - Adrian Spear episode: distance between stimulus and response.   15:39 - Grant  Herbert episode: be yourself. 16:13 - funniest moments: Lisa Linke, Christian Fleck, Daisy Simonis.   19:32 - most inspiring guests: Dr Everett Worthington, Ashley Kesner, Ricardo Gonzalez, Greg van Borssum.   24:29 - most surprising moments: grief (Jillian Rosoff and ..read more
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Angie Wakeman: the joy of clowning around in life (#49)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Angie Wakeman, Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell
1y ago
1:33 - being present rather than prepared.   4:26 - the moments that happen when we're present.   6:04 - being in the moment allows you to interact with your audience.   7:56 - does the costume help to lower inhibitions?   9:43 - curiosity, empathy and naivete.   11:28 - training yourself to see as if it was your first time seeing.   14:00 - how did clowning start for Angie?   16:23 - clowning is vulnerable and authentic.   24:10 - how Angie's previous careers helped with clowning.   27:31 - clowning in the corporate environment.   32:10 - you ..read more
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Florian Decludt on learning languages and adapting to cultures (#48)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Mark Tannan, Florian Decludt, Divan Gradwell
1y ago
1:21 - the first person to disagree on LinkedIn. 5:20 - the countries Florian has lived in.  7:18 - most difficult country to adapt to.  9:17 - are people less friendly in some countries?  12:32 - some cultures are more indirect. 14:36 - how to get an insight to the country’s unwritten rules. 16:30 - how Florian felt about going to a boarding school in a new country where he didn’t speak the language. 18:09 - why should people live in a different country?  24:45 - a new country is a clean slate.  27:10 - finding yourself when travelling.  32:00 - fear of failure s ..read more
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Melanie Marshall on the heart and soul of trust (#47)
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by Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell, Melanie Marshall
2y ago
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/melanie-marshall ..read more
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Laurie Gilbertson on high stakes persuasion: a prosecutor's perspective (#46)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Laurie Gilbertson, Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell
2y ago
2:10 - Alexander Hamilton.   5:02 - what drew Laurie into criminal law?   10:26 - the most important lessons Laurie's father taught her was about communication.   11:55 - importance of credibility when making your case.   14:18 - logic vs emotion in arguing a case.   17:32 - the importance of primacy: making the most of an opening statement.   23:53 - knowing your audience when the audience is very diverse.   27:37 - dealing with difficult people in the audience.   30:25 - we can easily misread our audience.   31:57 - the stories we tell ourselves c ..read more
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Jillian Rosoff on grief: heartache, healing and humour (#45)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell, Jillian Rosoff
2y ago
1:31 - Radical Candor in the Rosoff household. 2:08 - what drew Jillian to grief counselling. 4:30 - people are scared to talk about death. 7:06 - what to say when someone is grieving. 9:47 - we will all say the wrong thing at some point. 10:50 - people get less support during grief than we think. 12:25 - avoiding resentment when people don't reach out. 14:39 - when the platitudes don't fit. 16:40 - don't give advice. 17:59 - we grieve in context. 19:50 - different styles of grieving. 20:45 - grief has more emotions than sadness. 21:54 - can grief lead people to detrimental paths? 24:41 - heal ..read more
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Ryan Hartley on heart-centred leadership (#44)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Ryan Hartley, Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell
2y ago
2:05 - what drew Ryan to work at a call centre for the police. 4:28 - lessons from a emergency call centre. 6:45 - hire for character and social skills. 7:55 - de-escalating highly emotional situations. 10:17 - the hardest phone call Ryan ever took. 12:02 - importance of self-care in high stress jobs. 16:06 - managing your own emotions in high stress situations. 18:34 - the importance of being calm as the leader. 19:45 - leadership is an act, not a title. 21:18 - everyone has a purpose. 26:25 - candid conversations are not an excuse for being blunt and harsh. 27:01 - mindset, skillset and hear ..read more
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Dr Michelle Drouin: how technology impacts connection, intimacy and infidelity (#43)
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by Dr Michelle Drouin, Mark Tannen, Divan Gradwell
2y ago
1:53 - phantom phone vibrations. 2:35 - from development psychology to technology impact on relationships. 3:53 - is technology helpful or harmful to relationships? 7:24 - parents' concerns about kids on technology. 9:06 - technology opens up communication with people across the world. 9:47 - phone addiction is not all bad. 11:07 - using our phones for social good. 12:56 - calling her Grandma. 14:28 - millennials are scared of phone calls. 16:10 - does talking to strangers make us happy? 21:19 - a small kindness to a stranger can make their day. 23:06 - the intimacy famine why it matters. 25:3 ..read more
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David Neal: leadership is not about you (#42)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Divan Gradwell, Mark Tannen, David Neal
2y ago
1:39 - from enemies to best mates. 6:12 - there is nothing noble about being harmless. 7:06 - avoiding or engaging with conflict. 7:27 - what makes a leader? 8:50 - good leadership looks different in different contexts. 11:40 - the leadership style in the military. 12:59 - how values and beliefs impact team performance. 15:12 - navigating the conflicts that arise from having a diverse team. 15:35 - definition of leadership. 16:30 - diversity is contextual. What are you trying to achieve? 18:43 - are you trying to be right or correct? 20:36 - leaders represent people authentically in forums whe ..read more
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Cheri Torres and Jackie Stavros on using Appreciative Inquiry to create conversations worth having (#41)
Candour Communication Podcast
by Cheri Torres, Jackie Stavros, Divan Gradwell, Mark Tannen
2y ago
2:28 - how Cheri and Jackie first came across the idea of Appreciative Inquiry. 4:04 - how many hours in a day are you in conversation? 4:32 - what is appreciative inquiry. 5:34 - difference between a good and a bad conversation. 7:18 - you can feel when you are in a destructive, depreciative conversation. 7:42 - how many of our conversations can be worth having? 9:42 - our words affect each other. 11:13 - what to do when the conversation is turning sour. 12:02 - our conversations with loved ones are often less intentional than with strangers. 12:41 - example of using Appreciative Inquiry in t ..read more
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