"I didn't even know I was in masculine energy, I just thought I was hustling! "   Samantha Mimi N'guyen is writer and her clients range from Tesla, Apple, & Google to high end fashion magazines like El.   Sam was doing solid $30k months... Living the dream right.   WRONG!!!   SHE WAS SETTLING AF AND HAD LOW ASS SELF WORTH.   Sam was in a shitty relationship which killed her confidence and negatively affected her energy, her business, and her entire life.   Within 7 days she freaking 7x'd her Feminine Energy.   Sam didn't even know she was in masculine ene ..read more

If you already feel tired from the thought of getting through the holiday season because you're overwhelmed this is for you.   When you put everyone else before yourself and when you feel guilty saying no...   You end being grumpy Scrooge instead of Bad Ass Elf.    The best way to sabotage your holidays is by taking on way too much and never filling up your own tank.   Do you want to break your immune system with stress and get Covid for Christmas?    I didn't think so.   Sister, you teach people how to treat you.   I know you're thinking  ..read more

Are you are loyal AF to the beliefs that are ruining your life.   If you wake up and feel overwhelmed and stressed and you beat yourself for not being perfect I'm about to blow your mind.   You are so dedicated to all the reasons why your life isn't working and why you're not happy.   Answer me this... what are you showing up for everyday? Giving your energy to every day? What are you committed to every day?   The answer is... How you feel and what you have is exactly what you are committed to.   If you're anxious, you're committed to it.   If you're miserable at ..read more

Sister, you are working harder than you need to!   Are you an over achiever who kills yourself to be perfect?   Do you feel like your growth is going so slow ants are lapping you?   Do you want to accomplish your dreams faster?   Hell yes this is for you.    You're not failing because you're not worthy. You're failing because you're in survival mode.   It's impossible for you to change fast when your energy is stuck in the past and when your fear of I'm not good enough is sucking you dry.   Are you tired of watching women crush it and live their dre ..read more

Sister you have no freaking idea how good you are meat to feel.    My anxiety and self doubt was so painful it felt like a blanket of darkness that was suffocating me.    You know when you can’t see the light.   You feel such gnarly energy and so out of control there’s no way you could possibly overcome it and make yourself feel better…   You’re doing everything and it’s never enough.   It’s exhausting right.   I know for me I felt like I was all alone and I was 36 years old so I figured if I couldn’t do it by now, I couldn’t do it ever.    You ..read more

Our biggest kryptonite as women is caring way too much about what other people think.  I swear this is the master skill that has put me into the top 1% as a female entrepreneur in the life coaching niche. We as women are wired with more EGO. Here's why... we are more emotional. We care more about what others think of us and we try to be perfect.  So when we put up this perfect front and then we make a mistake it's like dooms freaking day. We get heat for it and we take it personally. My first tip is the more real you are the less ego is involved and no one ex ..read more

If you tell yourself the truth you will crash and burn. What I mean is as a perfectionist with the program in your subconscious that YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH... If you don't have enough passion and desire to override these negative feelings then you're gonna get burned baby. This is why you tell yourself lies. What do we say as the overachieving good girls? Shit like... "It's not that bad. I'm the strong one so burning out is ok. I'm not hurting anyone but myself. I've tried everything. I don't believe it's possible." The way you are suffering right now feels like you can't control it, it feels ..read more

Can you believe it takes an intense, passionate commitment to your dreams to reach them?   Your dreams don't just make themselves come true.   Your dreams don't come knocking at your door begging for you to experience them.   We're all super motivated at the beginning. We've got all the hope in the world. We're fresh eyed, bushy tailed and super excited for the adventure.    And then 5 seconds later someone plants some doubt in your head and you freaking quit on your dreams!   You quit on the one thing that would truly fulfill you and make ..read more

I know the ups and downs of reading something and thinking wow this is it.  Going to a workshop and feeling so high and then I get triggered by my partner and work and I feel that fight or flight survival mode takes over my body and everything I just learned and said I would do forever goes right out the window. First I get angry then the depression and anxiety sets in. No motivation to do anything, the only thoughts I'm getting are the worst case scenario. And the negative energy and hopelessness feels so big that the idea of getting out of the dar ..read more

Why in the World do we ask questions that betray our beliefs???   I guarantee...That means with 100% certainty your number one goal that you have not reached is being sabotaged by your questions.   If you knew how powerful your questions were you would never ask one's that betray your beliefs ever again!   Find me a woman who wants more than anything to be in a beautiful, loving, relationship, and she's struggling hard in the romance department...   And I guarantee we will find questions to prove why she can't find her soul mate.   This goes for your energy a ..read more