Hi, I met this girl very recently. She is new co worker of mine. I assume, she is older than me by roughly 8years. Anyway, she caught my eye instantly. Smart, polite, serious, focused on job. Looks wise-she is not model but I do not care. For me, she is 10/10 and I just want to be around her. Now, due to life circumstances job takes priority. I can't mess up employment for potentially silly crush/her being straight. How do I well, act/behave now? Do I verify in some subtle ways her life... Straight crush..? What to do ..read more

My wife and I are both smokers. I don't think we would have met if she was a non-smoker. Before we got married, we discussed a number of things, and our smoking was one of them. We both believe that relationships between smokers and non-smokers is complicated at best. We agreed that we would both be smokers for the rest of our lives, unless one of us has to quit for health reasons. In which case, we would both quit. Albeit, I would probably need professional help ..read more

I just want everyone's opinion. It seems as if lesbians don't like girly girls. Why is this? I'm extremely girly and no one suspects that I would even be with a girl. It gets pretty annoying but what is the reason ..read more

So long story short, last year I (female) met this girl (who I like) and we became quite close till around december last year. We would text each other everyday good mornings and I love you's, but till one day we had a fight and so we stopped texting. A month after not texting, school started and I had to see her everyday. Then we slowly started talking to each other again. AND TODAY SHE ASKED ME IF I LOVED HER (in spanish, basically, "tú me quieres?") NOT ONLY THAT BUT SHE ALSO (while I... Might be getting played with ..read more

I've added a tag "Lesbians Only" as an option for threads in this forum. Just select "thread prefix" and it will add the two words in front of the thread title. Your feedback is welcome ..read more

We could limit this forum to lesbians if the women here so desire. It would require us to either password protect the forum or have a box where you indicate your sexual preference and that would entitle you to use the forum. Those who are not lesbians would be blocked. Of course male mods can still see the posts. But if you don't mind men coming in and commenting we can leave it as is. Realize that many people will comment on threads without seeing that the forum is for Lesbians.... Should we limit this forum to Lesbians ..read more

In addition to "Elena Undone", which I posted in favorite films, I gained the most from "Lesbian Mothers". Marrying my partner expanded my family to not include just her, but also her sister (now my sister-in-law), her wife; plus, each brought a daughter to the marriage. This helped me to better understand the relationship that the four of them have. Just as a lesbian relationship one where the woman is BOTH members in the relationship, a lesbian family is one where the mother is BOTH... What are your favorite lesbian books ..read more

For me I would go with. Finger Smith Lword Imagine me and you Below her mouth I can't think straight ..read more

I'm really interested in why it's important to you or why it's not important to you. Every second month, my wife and I attend our local lesbian meet-up. During the off months, ten of us have a breakout of our own as our interests and lifestyles are more limited (we're all married or partnered, middle-aged, empty nesters, our children are adults, we're all smokers, etc.). Sometimes we meet in a street café, sometimes in one of our houses. After warm hugs and hellos, we spend the next hour,... Is it important to you that you have lesbian friends ..read more

Holding hands is a sign of affection and acceptance. Until my coming out, I always held hands with my male partner. After coming out, I was initially shy about holding hands with my female partner (now my wife), but eventually we started doing it regularly ..read more