My wife is not anti gay but after I probed her on being bi she said it would bake her feel sick. I want her to understand me. To accept me. And to know I t doesn't mean I want to cheat with a man. The same as I wouldn't cheat with a woman. We have a 6 year old boy and his older brother was throwing the 'your gay' insult about.. kids being kids... She said well that's not an issue if he is or he isn't. I just know if I told her I'm bi she would hit the roof and take it as a personal attack on our relationship. Btw I do think about being topped by men. Id just feel alot better rif she accepted ..read more

Is it me or is Grindr really just men wanting attention? Every time I’m in my city everyone seems to just flake or want to collect pics. Even when I ask to hang out they’re like “yes” and just ghost. What is wrong with Grindr? submitted by /u/A_Pair_of_Pears94 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I've read so many negative stories and experiences from bi guys online that talk about women who are either upset, turned off or downright insulting (especially to their partners) after they come out as bi. I have to say that I just don't get it. Personally, I'd love to be with a bi guy! How great would it be to watch gay porn together (only if he wants to of course) and be able to just share an attraction to men with each other? The thought is a massive turn on for me, just being able to talk openly about how hot guys are and to delight in the fact that you both find them sexy. It seems like ..read more

Often or almost all of the time when i build up the courage to put myself out there so i don't have to be so lonely all the time. The men that contact me want things to go very... like unbelievably quick and im like "hey im totally new to this and kinda anxious about it maybe you could be a little gentle and understanding with me and not try to immediatly get me into your bed as fast as possible" ??‍♂️??‍♂️??‍♂️ Its difficult being single as an anxious mid 20s dude in these times. Or maybe its just me thats struggling but i dont believe that. submitted by /u/soberladd [visit reddit] [comment ..read more

Streets saying that those two guys are bisexual but im not sure. I saw them kissing each other here and there but they never said they’re bi so theres a chance submitted by /u/Huge-Character-9566 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Going to go out with my nearby bud for a date! Wife is like go you. Anxiety before the gate, but I'm tough! He is a switch too <3 submitted by /u/BloodSung [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Yay! Testing complete, we are both good! It was not a big deal but somewhat embarrassing, I don't normally have a problem talking to my regular doctor but the clinic doctor was a very nice lady, wasn't prepared for conversation with a female doctor about my sex life. I have been examined by a female doctor before but not about what type of sex I have. She noticed I was having a problem talking to her about it and did her best to make me comfortable. With a bit of prodding I managed to tell her I recently had sex with a guy for the first time in my life and yes, we indulged in oral and anal se ..read more

I've identified as hetero flexible in the past but lately I've been leaning more towards bi. I'm not shy about checking into something sex related if I'm interested in it (strip clubs, adult video stores, swinger clubs/parties and a gay bathhouse). I know I like the rush of sexy stuff in public anonymously but I'd like this experience to be more friendly and healthy. What's the best way to go about finding another man to explore with? My main concerns are mitigating health risks (I've never contracted an STD) and being in an honest situation. I don't want to be a part of someone's infidelity ..read more

As the title says… I’m not sure what I am haha. Some things about men turn me on but others don’t. Some times when I chat to guys it’s like I’m hooked, I just crave them. But… and the big but… I’ve a girlfriend. She’s the type of person who wouldn’t want anything to do with me if I was even thinking about cock. I brought up the idea of a threesome with another person and I said I’d be open for it to be a guy and she questioned me and shut down the idea altogether. The curiosity is what kills me tho especially knowing she doesn’t like the idea of it haha. Idk - do I like cock or not?? submitt ..read more

I've been sexually attracted to few girls in my life. I can count the number on my fingers lol. Most of them I've grown over with time, but one girl I've consistently liked since my puberty. I'm 23 rn, so been more than decade since, that I've been crazy sexually attracted to her. However, I'm mostly only always attracted to guys. I always check out guys. I may appreciate a girl for her beauty, but that's about it. Other twist however is, I only watch straight porn, because it's hotter watching a straight guy fuck for some reason. So am I technically still a bi? submitted by /u/AdFormal7340 ..read more