Social media has us believe that a great marriage means feeling like newlyweds forever, with constant passion, weekly date nights, and never-ending butterflies. But that’s not real life. And when we compare our relationships to those unrealistic expectations, it’s easy to feel like something is missing.    In this episode, I’m breaking down what a truly strong, healthy marriage looks like, what Instagram gets wrong, and how to shift your perspective so you actually appreciate the marriage you have.   Tune in to discover: The misleading message social media sends about what a h ..read more

Being sick is hard enough, but have you ever noticed how it also stirs up tension in your marriage? Maybe it highlights just how uneven the mental load is or leaves you feeling uncared for when you need support the most. If getting sick has ever made you feel resentful, disconnected, or just plain exhausted in more ways than one—this episode is for you.   Tune in to discover: Why sickness can trigger disconnection and resentment in your marriage The real reason moms struggle to rest when they’re sick (and why dads don’t) How societal expectations shape the way illness plays out in p ..read more

What if the biggest thing keeping you disconnected from your spouse isn’t about spending more time together or even putting in more effort? So many couples focus on what’s missing in their marriage, but what if the real secret to reconnecting is something completely different? In this episode, I’ll help you shift your mindset and show you a powerful way to start feeling closer to your spouse again—without forcing anything or twisting yourself into a pretzel.   Tune in to discover: Why feeling disconnected has more to do with how you see your spouse than what they’re actually doing How ..read more

Something sneaky is quietly eroding connection in so many marriages, and chances are, it’s happening in yours too. It’s not just the big fights or major betrayals. There’s something else that builds up over time, leaving you feeling frustrated, unseen, and disconnected. But here’s the good news—once you recognize it, you can clear it out and finally feel like you’re in this together again.   Tune in to discover: Something that happens all the time—intentionally or unintentionally—that creates disconnection (and what to do instead) Why missing your spouse’s bids for connection is more ..read more

What does it take to build a marriage that not only lasts but thrives for 78 years? After witnessing my grandparents’ incredible love story, I’m sharing the key lessons from their decades together—lessons that can help you strengthen your own marriage today. These aren’t just old-school values; they are the foundations of a happy, connected, and resilient partnership.   Tune in to discover: The simple daily habit that keeps appreciation alive in a marriage Why respectful communication (even during conflict) is a game-changer How to prioritize your relationship through every season o ..read more

The little things in your marriage matter more than you realize. Those tiny, everyday moments—how you respond, the words you choose, the way you show up—are either strengthening your connection or quietly pulling you apart. But with just a few intentional shifts, you can start feeling more loved, supported, and connected in your marriage!   Tune in to discover: The hidden habit that leads to resentment (and how to shift into a team mentality instead) A simple mindset change that prevents defensiveness and encourages connection How micro-moments of connection can completely transform ..read more

Ever feel like your marriage is the problem? Like your spouse isn’t meeting your needs, follows through on nothing, or always gets defensive? While those things do need to change, there’s something bigger at play that makes everything feel so much harder—and it’s not just your relationship. In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden stressor that’s quietly making marriage after kids so challenging (and what you can do about it).   Tune in to discover: Why marriage feels so much harder after kids—and why it’s not just you The unseen force that turns small conflicts into major discon ..read more

Parenting disagreements can feel so personal—like you’re being judged by your spouse or anyone watching from the sidelines. But when you and your partner don’t see eye-to-eye on how to raise your kids, it can lead to fights that leave you both feeling disconnected. In this episode, I’ll show you how to navigate these differences and create a parenting partnership that works for both of you.   Tune in to discover: How to handle the judgment you feel from your spouse (or that stranger in the grocery store) The key to hearing each other and finding a way forward—even when you disagree ..read more

Have you ever opened up to your spouse about the mental load, only to be met with defensiveness, resistance, or invalidating responses? It can feel hopeless, lonely, and leave you questioning whether your partner truly understands or cares. This episode is for you if you’ve tried having these conversations but still aren’t getting what you need.   Tune in to discover: Why defensive or invalidating responses to the mental load feel so painful and isolating Scripts you can use when your spouse says frustrating things like, “Well, no one asked you to do all that,” or, “I guess I’m just a ..read more

Are you tired of feeling like you’re the one holding everything together - not just managing the household, but also keeping track of every need, schedule, and responsibility for your kids and spouse? The mental load can feel overwhelming, and even more so when you’re carrying it alone. But how do you talk to your spouse about it without it turning into an argument? In this episode, I’m sharing exactly what to do to approach this sensitive topic and how to build a stronger partnership in the process. Tune in to discover: Why the mental load isn’t just about tasks, but about the emotional w ..read more