SWM 133 – Loving your spouse where they are
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
3w ago
SWM 133 - Loving your spouse where they are. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I often give beginner homework to my coaching clients. A few of them will likely read this and think, “He was talking about me.” You’re not wrong, but you’re also not alone. I give it out frequently because it helps combat some fundamental problems I see in many marriages: resentment, unmet expectations, and continued disappointment. Whatever caused the resentment doesn’t matter. If you want to improve the marriage, you must get rid of that attitude first. Resentment leads to contempt, and onc ..read more
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SWM 132 – Breast implants and body image issues
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
1M ago
SWM 132 - Breast implants and body image issues. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. This episode I'm answer a question I received back in February that I forgot to answer. Here's the question: Hi! To start, I just wanted to say thank you so much for what you do! Your podcast has been immensely eye-opening and helpful! Now, to my question. I am in my 30s, and my husband and I have been together for 15 years. There was porn use by my husband that nearly tore us apart, but after therapy, support groups and endless prayer, I am so thankful to say we are stronger than ever, an ..read more
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SWM 131 – Tips to fight more effectively
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
1M ago
SWM 131 - Tips to fight more effectively in your marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Last week, I shared a list of ideas our Couple’s Night group had that helped build a resilient marriage. At the end of the call, we still had some time and started discussing fighting more effectively. Again, the group came up with some excellent ideas I want to share today. Because fights will happen, I might even say they should happen.  When I come across a couple that doesn’t fight in any way - that’s a red flag.  It means one or both don’t feel safe in the marriage ..read more
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SWM 130 – Building resiliency in marriage
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
1M ago
On the first Tuesday of every month, Chris from TheLionWithin.us and I co-host "Couple's Night."  Couples from our communities get together to talk about marriage. We discuss struggles, share ideas, tips, and a lot of funny stories. It's an absolute blast.  This Tuesday, we got together and talked about resiliency in marriage. There were about six couples in the Zoom call, and I thought they all had a lot of wisdom to share, so I tried to quickly take some notes and thought I'd relay them to you. Because marriages need resiliency, we're going to face struggles. They might be externa ..read more
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SWM 129 – AQ – Swingers, chastity devices, sex headaches, uncomfortable conversations, flavoured lubes and more
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
1M ago
Topics include: Can Christians be swingers? Chastity devices Sex and orgasm headaches Wife only wants one oral sex position, which he hates Worried about stamina Trying to spice things up ..read more
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SWM 128 – Relationships require recalibration
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
2M ago
There’s an old quip about how men get married expecting their wives to stay the same, and women get married expecting to be able to change their men, and neither gets what they want. It’s funny because often, there’s an element of truth to this, which frustrates both spouses. Of course, it doesn’t apply to every marriage, and sometimes the dynamic is reversed, but what is expected of every marriage is that something in the marriage will change.  It may be the wife, it may be the husband, it’s likely going to be both in some ways, and it’s also going to be your surroundings and context.&nb ..read more
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SWM 127 – AQ – Not interested in sex, are men infatuated with ejaculate and many more questions
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
2M ago
Topics include: Why am I not interested in sexy any more after having a baby? How do I get my wife to rest without guilt? Why does my wife dismiss my advice when she asks for it? How do I get my wife engaged in sexual growth? Are men infatuated with their ejaculate ..read more
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SWM 127 – AQ – Not interested in sex, are menu infatuated with ejaculate and many more questions
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
2M ago
Topics include: Why am I not interested in sexy any more after having a baby? How do I get my wife to rest without guilt? Why does my wife dismiss my advice when she asks for it? How do I get my wife engaged in sexual growth? Are men infatuated with their ejaculate ..read more
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SWM 126 – Unspoken Nuances of Understanding
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
3M ago
Marriage is a cosmic tapestry, a constellation of souls woven into the fabric of time, where vows echo in the heart's language, shaping a journey of shared whispers and laughter. It's a dance of compromise and compassion, a symphony where individual melodies blend into a shared harmony, with time sculpting the narrative of a joint odyssey. Amidst life's tempests, love's resilience is tested, forging a bond that transcends the ephemeral, painting a portrait of unity where intimacy bridges solitude, and shared dreams color the canvas of existence ..read more
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SWM 125 – Rethinking “Duty Sex”
Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
by Jay Dee
3M ago
I've had a lot of conversations with couples as well as husbands and wives individually lately about what often gets called "duty sex" or "pity sex." For those who don't know, duty/pity sex is when one spouse gives in to sex, not because they desire it themselves, but because their spouse does. They might have sex for many reasons, including feeling obligated, pressured, guilty, to keep the peace or to "get them off their back."The problem is that these negative reasons are often the only ones considered, and so any situation in which one spouse wants sex and the other agrees to it without hav ..read more
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