New vision Wow has it been a year since i made a blog post! Man time is flying so fast now. This last year has been A lot of learning and transformation. Breaking all the curses that Was passed down through generations. Setting boundaries with toxic people and cutting off all the dead weight ive been carrying for too long. Starting new traditions with my family Instead of the same old thing year after year. Even though No one understands our decisions but im trying my best to be ok with that even if it hurts. How do you go from being the perfect child to being a disobedient child? Let me te ..read more

The Breakthrough   Has there ever been a moment Where you feel like you overcame Something crazy? A time when you feel like you are moving forward? It’s a very bittersweet feeling because you’re Grateful for growing and experiencing but on the other hand you feel overwhelmed with sadness that, that chapter of your life is over. This moment of being at a crossroads with life And not knowing which direction to go is a very important part. It separates the weak from the strong, many people fall back and continue with their patterns. The Strong and wise will start noticing things That cont ..read more

Opinions Life right now is without a doubt the most challenging times We’ve ever experienced. But the question that i have stewing in my mind is everyones opinions. This need for others to be right and getting everyone on their side of issues in the world. Everyone is going to Have their own opinions and im pretty sure They are going to stick by their own beliefs. Once it starts getting into arguments then it’s a whole new ballgame. For me i think people should keep their opinions to themselves and not use it as a Conversation Piece. I thought we all needed to tell everyone what’s on our mi ..read more

Peace Have you ever had a moment where you feel at peace with yourself and life? Hmm me either, but that is one of Life’s most challenging tasks. Trying to be a good person and help but also taking a step back and trying to take time for yourself. Time is a fast moving clock that never stops ticking. How do we find that peace We’ve been searching so far and wide for? Where is it? Is it a place, a mindset or just a quiet place? Wherever or whatever it is i hope everyone has one or is Finding one. In this crazy ride of life it gets way too busy to focus on any one thing. With kids, work, scho ..read more

Cutting Ties Have you ever felt like you do everything and you Don’t get the same treatment in Return? As a mother it comes natural to help, nurture and do everything you can to help your family as well as others. It also could be the fact that being an empath you feel compelled to help anyone in need. But im realizing that you cant always help Everyone. most people i know just take and they Don’t give anything back. It gets stressful when you’re the only one giving and it becomes the new normal. I know it sounds crazy but have you been in a situation where you are always bringing something ..read more

Control What is control? Why does it feel like a drug to us? I know for a fact that i craved control like my life depended on it. I felt like if i Wasn’t in control i would die. which is horrible if you think about it, but i Didn’t know any better. It can mean both a good thing but also a bad thing. Such as a need to control everyone around you because You’re scared to turn to yourself and take Control of your own life. Or control can be huge help for some people. Going from a troubled person who needs control to feel powerful toward others to being a person that controls every aspect of her ..read more

Finding our worth in life is one of Life’s milestones, the The fact that we let other people dictate our value and worth is something that Shouldn’t be allowed. For example when you get a job and you work your ass off but you never get noticed. Or if you’re surrounded by Narcissists and Manipulators and constantly seek their approval so you can get a raise and it never comes. I Don’t believe anyone should feel like they’re worth is less than they believe. I’ve seen it all too many times. I was raised to listen and obey and work your tail off. But where does working hard get you in the norm ..read more

Enough How many times out of the day do you feel like you’re not enough? For empaths we always question ourselves and wonder if we’re doing Enough. For me this is a very sensitive subject because who really know’s if we are doing enough? No one really knows the answer to that but yet we Still try to find the Answer to something that would never get answered. My brain is always going one hundred miles an hour and im sure others are the same. Running and wondering about life and how we got here. I like to ask other’s Around me what their idea of enough is. Is it doing the bare minimum or is i ..read more

Unfair situations Have you ever been put in situations that seem unfair? Losing something or someone so near and dear to you is unfair. But when has life ever been fair? Journaling really helps me get a lot of questions off of my heart. But as i look back on it i see mostly questions and no answers. There is so much things That you have to live With without an explanation. These wounds are deep and i Don’t think they will ever fully heal. Life is so cruel and we Don’t know why. Each cut slicing deeper then the last but we must patch them up and push on. For me it was having a miscarriage at ..read more

Decisions of life Learning to make decisions after manipulation is get wrenching! Being indecisive is now a struggle to all who know what im talking about. Spending your whole life listening and obeying everything you’re told. Now at a older age you are trying to understand your own self and purpose, but it’s a constant struggle. Your trying to do things differently and improving yourself but you search for answers all around you but you just cant find the right one to make. Now you’re in this constant battle with yourself with choices that you cant make. Journaling daily is a great brain d ..read more