In this week's episode, I answer a listener's question about feeling criticized vs. receiving helpful feedback. We also discuss delayed trauma and how that bubbles back up to the surface in your professional life as soon as we're triggered. Don’t even know where to begin in improving your communication style? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be?   Book a Social Strategy Session HERE  Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Digital Business Card Blinq.AI   https://blinq.me/ LinkedIn Instagram TikTok ..read more

Episode 176 answers a listener’s question about why they may have been passed over for a higher level role.   Numerous factors come into play, and taking the steps to modify your persona may be the best option.   Don’t even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE   Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook Digital Business Card Blinq.AI   https://blinq.me/ LinkedIn Instagram TikTok ..read more

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In episode #174 we explore the transformative potential of social scripting and visualization techniques in shaping ideal experiences. We delve into how crafting mental scripts and vividly imagining desired outcomes can enhance confidence, performance, and overall well-being. From job interviews to public speaking engagements, we discuss practical applications of these methods in various contexts. Join us as we uncover the science behind these practices and offer actionable tips for incorporating them into daily routines. Tune in to learn how to harness the power of your mind to create the exp ..read more

In episode 172, we delve into the importance of selecting the right communication style for various situations. From assertiveness to passive-aggressiveness and aggression, we explore how each style shapes interactions and relationships.  Learn how upbringing and social influences play a role in determining our default styles and how we can consciously adapt them for better outcomes. Discover practical tips for navigating conversations with confidence, setting boundaries, and creating healthy communication habits. It’s my goal to empower you to to make informed choices about your communic ..read more

In episode 171 we uncover how the narratives we craft, both internally and influenced by society, shape the outcomes we experience in life. From personal self-talk to worry and anxiety, explore the cognitive links between our stories and the realities we manifest. Join us as we delve into practical insights and inspiring examples, revealing the profound impact of our narratives on our perceptions and the choices we make. Tune in to learn how rewriting our stories can lead to positive transformation and personal growth. Don’t even know where to begin? Are you ready to leave social stress behind ..read more

Social skills, be they good or bad, are often the result of ingrained habits that develop over time. These habits can include things like interrupting others, avoiding eye contact, or not listening actively. Sometimes, people may not even be aware of these habits because they've become a natural part of how they interact with others. It's important to recognize that poor social skills are not permanent personality traits; instead, they are learned behaviors that can be modified with awareness and effort. The good news is that social skills can be changed through conscious effort and practice ..read more

Feeling stuck in your comfort zone? This episode dives into the power of taking social risks and speaking up! We explore why stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to exciting opportunities, stronger connections, and even personal growth. Discover how to overcome anxieties, find your voice, and unlock the potential hidden within your social risks!   Book a Social Strategy Session HERE Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook ..read more

If the thought of initiating and joining conversations brings you down, instead, think of social skills as the bridge between knowledge and your making an amazing impact. They let you explain complex ideas clearly, persuade colleagues, and build trust with clients. They help you navigate the "human side" of the equation, where teamwork, leadership, and communication hold the power to unlock true potential. Don't be fooled by the "soft" label. Mastering social skills requires dedication, just like any valuable skill. Active listening, empathy, and clear communication are muscles you can train ..read more

Building and maintaining healthy self-esteem is important for various aspects of your life, as it influences your mental well-being, relationships, and overall success. It helps you with everything from having positive mental health, to resilience, improved relationships, increased confidence, and daily motivation, just to name a few. It's important to note that building self-esteem is a continuous process that involves self-reflection, self-compassion, and personal growth.   Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook   Free Guide: The Ultimate Way to Start Conversations and Le ..read more