I frequently am accused by certain men of being a feminist. At this point, I think that feminist means different things to different people. If a feminist is a woman who expects women to have all of their God-given rights and expects women to be seen and treated as equally valuable and important, so be it. If feminist means anything that goes against God’s design and His will, then no, I am not a feminist. I noticed that some men with certain oppressive religious views call me a feminist. I think what it boils down to is when I don’t agree with them, to them, I must be a feminist. I must be ag ..read more

I firmly encourage you to please stop emasculating men, if this is what you are doing. Whatever women lack in physical strength, some make up for with sharp tongues, which they use to hurt others. Although verbal abuse is not deadly in that it is not physical abuse and cannot cause bodily harm, it is still very harmful. 1.) Some women make it a point to publicly embarrass their men. Instead of taking their men aside and speaking discreetly to them about sensitive topics, they put it on blast for others to see and hear. This can cause men to feel humiliated and ashamed. This is wrong. 2.) Some ..read more

I write a lot to warn, inform and encourage women against misogynistic attitudes and controlling, abusive behaviors. Though these behaviors and attitudes have been a problem for many generationally, women’s responses have not always been right either. For example, radical feminism is an extreme response. Sometimes, some women go too far and become extreme, calling behaviors controlling or tyrannical when they aren’t. I am seeing some ladies resistant to their men’s benevolent actions and calling their men controlling. The motives behind why a person does something is key. Yet, people’s definit ..read more

Love is…everything. God is love. He sent His Son Jesus as Savior, to die to pay the penalty for our sins. This is the ultimate sacrifice- to give one’s life for the sake of others. There is no greater love. I encourage myself as well as other women to influence others righteously. One way to do this is to love others. Many people are still looking for love and marriage. Many ladies are very bothered that the pickings to find good quality husbands are slim. When looking for love, the most important thing to do is to look to God first. We must receive His love and be able to give love to others ..read more

This post is to inform girls and women in ways that I was not informed. It is to encourage them in ways that I was not encouraged. It is to warn them in ways I was not warned. Everyone has insecurities of some sort. For some people, their insecurities are a lot more debilitating. Some women are finding out about the dangers of relationships with their men primarily through their individual experiences. Some people are uncomfortable with these topics. I believe that’s why sometimes, there is still a lot of silence among family, friends and colleagues about these issues. However, if people could ..read more

Some men are very concerned about women not being able to pair bond with their husbands because of the women’s sexual histories. I believe this is a legitimate concern. Let me tell you another legitimate concern I have. Not only is it a concern as to whether women will pair bond with their husbands. I’m concerned about the same for men, pair bonding with their wives. Will husbands be able to bond and attach correctly to their wives after promiscuous pasts? Yet, it has been widely accepted that many men just don’t bond the same way women do. Some women are told that men are mechanical beings, e ..read more

Amidst the gender wars, there are some men calling out and rebuking gentlemen who love and respect women, accusing them of being “simps.” Some men really seem to hate women to the point where they don’t even want to see women treated well. This shouldn’t have to be said, but a man doing these things is not simping: • A man advocating for women who are on the receiving end of injustices, such as the discrimination and oppression of women. • A husband who is faithful/monogamous to his wife and holds her in high esteem. • An emotionally intelligent man who does not fear love, but boldly and activ ..read more

Yes. A woman’s approval and affirmation of her man is incentive for him. Did you ever notice that plenty men who desire women generally avoid behaviors that they believe repulse women and push women away from them? Men who want to be with women generally act in manners they believe will attract and keep women. Or at least, some behave in ways, doing just enough right not to repel women. In other words, plenty will do the minimum of what is necessary to attract and keep women. Some men are able to do the following and still get and keep women: Lie Abuse– all forms Steal Cheat Be parasitic– bein ..read more

In keeping with my theme of godly femininity and impacting others righteously, in this post, I am calling out something about certain (not all) black women. This is because what is right is right, and what is wrong is wrong, regardless of anything else. It doesn’t matter if we are the same gender or if we have similar skin tones. I don’t take sides, based on superficial traits. I want to do what is right in the sight of God. The word of God says that we are to love others as we love ourselves (Matthew 22: 39). God commands people to love one another. People shouldn’t be hating on each other ou ..read more

Godly submission will always be relevant. Why? Because it is God’s design. God’s ways and God’s will transcend time. It doesn’t matter that it’s 2023. For people who follow Jesus Christ, it is important for everyone to submit to God. Godly submission of wives to husbands is not simply something for the 1950s, the 1800s or a concept that is only discussed in the Bible and left there. I am writing this post, because in response to misogyny and male chauvinism, some women are seemingly rejecting God’s design for husbands and wives. This is no good. Especially, for women who profess to be Christia ..read more