As a fertility practice dedicated to providing inclusive fertility and family-building care for all, we are honored to be recognized by the Human Rights Campaign for our seventh year. Skip to a section: Leading the Way in LGBTQ+ Healthcare What is the Human Rights Campaign Foundation? What criteria are used by the HRC? The State of LGBTQ+ Rights in 2024 Key Highlights from 2024 HEI Report Why is Illume Fertility an LGBTQ+ leader? Meet Gay Parents To Be The Importance of LGBTQ-Inclusive Care Our Promise Leading the Way in LGBTQ+ Healthcare We are proud to announce that Illume Fertility has a ..read more

Despite the prevalence of infertility (now impacting 1 in 6 people globally), many still feel they have to hide their struggles. In honor of National Infertility Awareness Week, former fertility patients choose to tell their stories - in the hopes of helping others feel less alone. In this article: What is National Infertility Awareness Week? Every Story Matters Alicia's Story Brittany's Story Savannah's Story Dionicio & Ruddy's Story Kate & Mike's Story How to Use Your Voice What is National Infertility Awareness Week? Created by RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association in 19 ..read more

Recent research shows that 42% of U.S. adults have utilized fertility treatment or know someone who has. But even with the increasing prevalence of treatments like IVF, some still struggle for years to conceive. In this story, one couple opens up about their difficult journey. In this article: Meet Kate & Mike A Difficult Start The IVF Roller Coaster Choosing to Switch Fertility Clinics Exploring Other Paths to Parenthood A New Beginning Early Pregnancy Symptoms Welcoming Their Twins Unpacking Infertility: What They Learned Changing the Conversation Editor's Note: We are so gratefu ..read more

When you have to pay for fertility treatment out of pocket, it's natural to want to give yourself the best possible chances of success. Hear from one uninsured couple who had two sets of fraternal twins as a result of their choices during IVF treatment.  In this article: Meet Dionicio & Ruddy Taking the First Step Starting IVF Treatment Making a Controversial Decision A Dream Come True After the Storm Comes a Rainbow (or Two) What the Experts Say Why They Share Their Journey Editor's Note: We are so grateful to Dionicio and Ruddy for being willing to share their story with us ..read more

Navigating the world of surrogacy can be daunting, particularly when it comes to finances. In this guide, we explore the average cost of surrogacy in the United States in 2024, with a special focus on possible additional financial considerations for same-sex male couples. In this article: Understanding the World of Surrogacy The Average Cost of Surrogacy in the United States Surrogacy Cost Breakdown Does insurance cover surrogacy? Additional Considerations for Same-Sex Couples What other factors influence surrogacy costs? Financial Planning for Surrogacy Beyond Finances: The Emotional Journey ..read more

Choosing an egg donor is one of the first big decisions you'll need to make as a dad-to-be pursuing surrogacy. In this guide, we provide a comprehensive overview of the emotional, medical, and legal aspects to help you navigate the process of finding an ideal egg donor. In this article: The Basics of Egg Donation Does the "perfect" egg donor exist? 3 Questions to Ask Before Your Search Begins Where to Find An Egg Donor How to Choose Your Ideal Egg Donor Who can help me/us make this decision? The Why of Choosing Your Egg Donor Ready to find your egg donor? The Basics of Egg Donation  Eg ..read more

Every couple dreaming of parenthood imagines the moment they'll finally hold their baby in their arms. But what happens when that dream is deferred by unexpected challenges and heartbreak? A mother through IVF shares how a shocking diagnosis led to her rainbow baby. In this article: Meet Brittany Uncovering Major Fertility Roadblocks The Fertility Treatment Roller Coaster Embryo Transfer #2 Persevering Through Loss & Disappointment What happens when you run out of insurance coverage? A Long-Awaited Miracle Brittany's Advice for Fertility Patients A Long Road With a Happy Ending Editor's ..read more

When Alicia decided to pursue IVF with her partner Mary, she ended up carrying more than just a baby—she also carried the memory of her own mother. This two-mom family's story of loss, love, and late-in-life pregnancy redefines the fabric of hope and resilience. In this article: Meet Alicia A Dream Deferred Finding a New Fertility Practice A Fresh Start Preparing for An IVF Cycle Selecting Donors When One Life Ends, Another Begins A Bittersweet Embryo Transfer A New Baby & A New Beginning Advice for Other Moms-to-Be Holding Grief & Gratitude Together Editor's Note: We are so gr ..read more

Choosing to become a parent is a big decision. Choosing to pursue single parenthood adds even more responsibility and complexity - but can also be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life. In this article: Meet Kaitlyn January 2019: Researching Her Options Taking the First Steps with Illume Fertility May 2019: Starting with IUI Treatment January 2020: First IVF Cycle March 2020: Pandemic Setbacks September 2020: Risk & Reward On Becoming a Single Mom by Choice Will people support your choices? Meet Kaitlyn While many people wait to find 'the one' before deciding to become pa ..read more

There are many important decisions to make on your journey to parenthood. But for gay dads-to-be embarking on the surrogacy process, one of the first big questions to answer is "Whose sperm are we going to use?"  In this article: Beginning Your Surrogacy Journey How to Choose Whose Sperm to Use Selecting Your Egg Donor IVF for Surrogacy FAQs: Surrogacy for Dads-to-Be What if we want to have twins? Can two dads be related to the same child? Can you mix sperm from both partners for surrogacy? Looking Towards Your Family's Future Beginning Your Surrogacy Journey Here at Illume Fertil ..read more