What is a relationship with a narcissist really like?  If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself constantly. You’re always second-guessing. Your boundaries and sense of self are slowly broken down by emotional manipulation and gaslighting. Whether you’re still feeling the wounds from a past narcissistic relationship, or are trying to figure out if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist right now, today’s video is your next step. I walk you th ..read more

   Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on.  Either way, this is the first aid you need right now. In today’s video, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex ..read more

   “How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?”Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon. I get so many questions on this exact topic every week, because getting clear on this can save you a lot of time and prevent unnecessary heartache down the road. In today’s video, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if some ..read more

   Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet). Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s video, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating. MATTHEW HUSSEY Hello, everyone ..read more

   Do you sometimes feel like you’re still carrying trauma from a narcissistic relationship? Perhaps you’re haunted by regret over the fact that you didn’t leave earlier. Or you’ve been through so much in recent years that you’re not even sure you know who you are anymore . . . and have no idea how to start the healing process. In today’s video, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painfu ..read more

   Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps you’ve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping they’ll finally notice you and see your value.  This great question is one of 7 I answer in today’s new video, based on the comments you left me last week. I also dig into topics like: What’s the best way to start a long-distance relationship? What’s your dating advice for people over 40? Why did they change their mind about being ready for a ..read more

   “How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?” This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today’s rapid-fire Q&A video, which also includes answers to:  “What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?” “When Did You Last Cry?” “How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?” “Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?” . . . and much more. It was super fun to read and answer all your que ..read more

   Is love enough to keep a relationship going? You may have asked yourself this question when you’ve faced a difficult breakup. In today’s video, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last. These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, you’ll never look at compatibility the same way again . . . Why isn’t love enough when it comes to finding a long-term relationship? In my new boo ..read more

   When we’re stuck in a situationship with someone who doesn’t know what they want, it’s incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and hear the words “I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” it feels like we’re suddenly back to square one!  If you’re tired of not knowing where you stand, you’ve come to the right place. In this video, I share 5 signs that can reveal if someone is ready for a relationship, plus a key question you can ask yourself and use anytime you feel stuck or conf ..read more

   Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them? Sadly, it’s all too common to get seduced into a roller coaster romance where we feel amazing chemistry but never know where we stand with someone. Today I’m giving you the best advice I’ve given on this topic through 7 clips that will help you avoid players and find the right person. If you’re ready to rewire your brain and start attracting someone who says “yes” to a relation ..read more