
Neurodiverse Love
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Two friends sharing the lessons they learned in their relationships with men with undiagnosed autism spectrum differences. Mona was married for 30 years and didn't realize her ex-husband was on the spectrum until their 29th year of marriage. Olga was in a relationship for almost a year with a man she told Mona about because she thought his brain was wired differently. Join Mona and Olga as..
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
We have changed the account we will be using for Season 2, so please check out the first episode and subscribe at: https://anchor.fm/neurodiverse-love or check out the link in our bio on Instagram @neurodiverse_love
We hope you will join us and subscribe to Season 2 of the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast as Mona and Manecia share more lessons learned and lived experiences. We will also have more guests joining us on the podcast. We hope that hearing from others in "Neurodiverse Love" relationships, as well as those who are providing counseling or coaching to neurodiverse couples ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
During this episode Mona, Olga and Manecia talk about how we have dealt with our emotions SO differently then our neurodivergent partners, and discuss the impact this has had on our relationships. When we have shared our emotions and feelings with our current or past partners, they might respond by shutting down, looking very confused, or appear indifferent. Understanding and coming to terms with how differently our partners processed our emotions has been a challenging journey, however, during this episode we have some epiphanies that may help others. We discuss how importan ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
In this episode, we talk about what we did do, as well as what we didn't do, to take care of ourselves in our neurodiverse relationships. We also delve into why acknowledging and letting ourselves feel and work through our emotions is SO important. Even though both partners may have different ways of expressing their emotions, we talk about the importance of understanding and experiencing your emotions in the ways that are healthy and healing for you (and don't cause harm to others). Lastly, we talk about the ways in which we have grown in our relationships and how important ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
During this episode we talk about how important emotional reciprocity is to the neurotypical partner and how each partner needs to create their own happiness, instead of relying on the other to be their only source of fun and happiness. We also talk about some of the ways in which each partner can get their needs met through respectful. loving communication. In addition, we talk about the challenges couples may have because of unresolved trauma from undiagnosed autism and how that can have an impact on the neurodiverse relationship.
As we continue to expand our podcast content, we ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
We are so excited to share this episode with our listeners. Kate and Clark have been married for 9 years and in October, 2020, Clark was officially diagnosed as autistic. During this episode, this neurodiverse couple share openly and honestly about the ups and downs of being in a ND Love relationship. They share how they met, what attracted them to each other, what it's like to receive an ASD diagnosis as a married adult with two children. They also talk about how they are learning to handle communication challenges, the importance of emotional reciprocity, more effecti ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
Mona and Olga have a new co-host and welcome her to the 31st episode of the "Neurodiverse Love" podcast. Manecia is in a neurodiverse marriage and shares her story in a way that is encouraging and enlightening. During this episode, we all talk about the importance of understanding your partner and learning what you both need to do and understand to succeed and thrive, individually, and as a couple in a neurodiverse relationship.
This is definitely a "don't miss" episode!!!
We know that you will all enjoy hearing Manecia's story as she shares the ways in which her and he ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
As more and more adults are diagnosed with autism (or they self-diagnose), it is critical that we find ways to understand and accept the various neurotypes that exist. We all bring strengths and opportunities for improvement to our professional and personal lives, however, if we are quick to judge or negate each other, and don't seek understanding and acceptance, we lose out on so many wonderful learning, healing and growth opportunities. Many partners in Neurodiverse Love relationships may be dealing with the Cassandra Syndrome. This happens when they share with others some ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
During this episode Olga and Mona discuss the difference between starting a relationship and knowing your partner is neurodivergent at the beginning, versus finding out after over 25 years of marriage. Is one easier then the other and if so, why?
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Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
In this episode we talk about how important it was for us to let go of the things we dreamed of having and experiencing in our Neurodiverse Love relationships. In addition, we have learned over time that having expectations of our partners caused a lot of emotional pain and disappointment. While there are strengths and challenges in every relationship, in the beginning of a ND relationship you are often your partner's special interest. During that time, they want to do whatever they can to please you. Once that changes and they focus on a new special interest or one the ..read more
Neurodiverse Love
1y ago
Mona and Olga are both comfortable with most change, and don't need to know, or understand the details regarding every aspect of their lives. Instead, they tried to "go with the flow" as much as possible and find joy and the lessons to learn in the ups and downs of life. In their Neurodiverse Love relationships change was a major challenge for their partners and "going with the flow" could lead to anxiety, anger or other negative reactions from their partners. Knowing the importance of preparation or planning in a ND relationship can help reduce these challenges and this is w ..read more