Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Chapter 7 - Comparing and contrasting Love is Blind couples 50:12 Chapter 8 - Subtle parts of abuse 1:25:27 Chapter 9 - Jealousy Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psych ..read more

Dr Kirk Honda discusses borderline personality and partner abuse while reacting to the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Love is Blind work 16:35 Chapter 1 - Patterns of escalation 54:12 Chapter 2 - Exerting control 1:32:11 Chapter 3 - Abusive cycle 2:17:27 Chapter 4 - Absolute thinking & respect 2:34:47 Chapter 5 - Abandonment & betrayal 3:09:00 Chapter 6 - Rejection & countertransference  Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/chann ..read more

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Tyrion Lannister from Game of Thrones. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/ Faceb ..read more

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Theon Greyjoy from Game of Thrones. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/ Facebook ..read more

Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss the difference between abuse and exploration in childhood. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Where is the line between sexual exploration and abuse? 45:44 Is the omission of infidelity harmful? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psy ..read more

Humberto and Dr Kirk discuss what grooming is exactly. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 Power imbalance in management/abuse of the power dynamic 16:29 How do I know if I'm being groomed as an adult? 22:36 What is the definition of grooming? 49:10 Am I having my needs met or being abused? 1:02:15 Are these red flags of grooming?  1:13:22 How can I recognize grooming from my childhood? Become a member: https://www.yo ..read more

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 How do we identify our needs? 04:10 Where does the pleasure for sadists come from? 08:57 Is it possible to treat sadists? 14:07 OPP 18:10 Can my therapist also be my supervisor? 21:52 Is it weird to not experience existential anxiety? 28:42 How can I prepare for grad school? 34:37 OPP2 35:49 Developing narcissism 46 ..read more

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks analyzes Sandor Clegane (The Hound) from Game of Thrones. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: htt ..read more

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda analyzing Cersei Lannister from Game of Thrones. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo ..read more

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails and takes random psychological tests. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirkGet started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. 00:00 How does recognizing our attachment style influence us? 07:23 Is BPD only treatable through psychiatry & medication? 14:00 Is the Hero Journey Club therapy? 27:34 OPP 30:05 How can I support a friend with delusions? 41:35 Has Dr. Kirk experienced the loss of a mentor relationship? 55:30 OPP2 58:24 What could cau ..read more