Living your best life doesn't mean everything is perfect. It will never all be perfect. But you do need to wake up nearly every day EXCITED about living life because you are doing what you love to do ..read more

What qualifies you, me, or anyone as dating material? SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com ..read more

Hey guys I’m consolidating down to my top 3 platforms. Make sure to connect with me there for more updates, content, and exciting news! YOUTUBE: Healing Is Sexy. FB: Black Love Recovery for Black Singles and Couples. IG: @healingissexylife. Hope to connect ..read more

Food for thought: Can Black people really say we are traditional or what “traditional” relationships? Traditionally, I believe our references are different than how we are describing it today. Yes, men and women had roles even way back then, but I feel there were still differences from how we define things today. Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515 ..read more

Let’s talk briefly about the history of wigs and also a misconception of someone who may express desiring love. Don’t forget to enter for your chance to win some awesome prizes on the website! Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515 ..read more

In this episode I share insight on the upcoming “Marry You First” books I’ve been working on for Men and Women as well as how you can enter to win several cool prizes! Be sure to visit my website at www.healingissexylife.com and subscribe to the newsletter mailing to stay in the know. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingisse ..read more

You guys! I have found another winner! This book is an excellent resource to add to your self-healing inventory. You will learn more about 3/4 attachment styles and better understand how and why you and the people you care about behave the way you/they do. Highly recommended! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ P ..read more

I feel like there’s a distinction between good manhood and being a good leader and that shouldn’t be the case. A man who is a good man is generally going to be making strides to be a good leader in his circles of influence. A man who leads doesn’t point blame or shuts down and avoids situations. We NEED more men to be GOOD LEADERS. We need more men to correlate manhood with being good leaders and leading by example. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor ..read more

Yesterday I caught a Live where several of the viewers were trashing the character of one on the interviewees. It’s sad so many people had that type of energy to focus on someone who was living her truth. Let people live their truth! And also, let’s stop normalizing our trauma! Remember, healing is a process and a journey. It's a choice we make each and every day. You got this and I'm rooting for you! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.c ..read more

Bible said he who finds a wife. Not he who makes a woman his wife. It means you as a woman already are. You aren’t supposed to be waiting for a man to make you into a wife. You’re that already. Becoming a wife is different to everyone and every man’s needs. Take a listen. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Priv ..read more