Living your best life doesn't mean everything is perfect. It will never all be perfect. But you do need to wake up nearly every day EXCITED about living life because you are doing what you love to do ..read more

A Word On Colorism & Fatherhood SOCIAL CONTACT INFO IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexy/ TIKTOK: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdhVTmcY/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/healingislife/ Private FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515/?ref=share Website: www.healingissexylife.com Blog: https://dearblackpeople.blog Email: melwilliams@healingissexylife.com ..read more

Sometimes you’re required to become independent in a variety of life situations. But that doesn't mean you have to continue to operate or suffer from the traumatizing experiences that made you self-reliant.  Here I share some of my experiences. Make sure you visit this link if you need help healing and experiencing healthier relationships: https://www.healingissexylife.com ..read more

In this episode BLR with H.I.S. "The Big Lie" let's break down what it really means to be an independent woman and experience interdependence. Especially for Black relationships.  Make sure you visit this link if you need help healing and experiencing healthier relationships: https://www.healingissexylife.com ..read more

Hey guys I’m consolidating down to my top 3 platforms. Make sure to connect with me there for more updates, content, and exciting news! YOUTUBE: Healing Is Sexy. FB: Black Love Recovery for Black Singles and Couples. IG: @healingissexylife. Hope to connect ..read more

Food for thought: Can Black people really say we are traditional or what “traditional” relationships? Traditionally, I believe our references are different than how we are describing it today. Yes, men and women had roles even way back then, but I feel there were still differences from how we define things today. Follow my IGs: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515 ..read more

Let’s talk briefly about the history of wigs and also a misconception of someone who may express desiring love. Don’t forget to enter for your chance to win some awesome prizes on the website! Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ Private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/856135225122515 ..read more

In this episode I share insight on the upcoming “Marry You First” books I’ve been working on for Men and Women as well as how you can enter to win several cool prizes! Be sure to visit my website at www.healingissexylife.com and subscribe to the newsletter mailing to stay in the know. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingisse ..read more

You guys! I have found another winner! This book is an excellent resource to add to your self-healing inventory. You will learn more about 3/4 attachment styles and better understand how and why you and the people you care about behave the way you/they do. Highly recommended! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/healingissexy/episodes/Stop-Paying-For-Place-Holders-in-your-Love-Life-e17gurt Follow my IG: https://www.instagram.com/healingissexylife/ P ..read more

I feel like there’s a distinction between good manhood and being a good leader and that shouldn’t be the case. A man who is a good man is generally going to be making strides to be a good leader in his circles of influence. A man who leads doesn’t point blame or shuts down and avoids situations. We NEED more men to be GOOD LEADERS. We need more men to correlate manhood with being good leaders and leading by example. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/ Sign Up for My Program: http://www.healingissexylife.com/the-program.html#/ Podcast: https://anchor ..read more