How many times have we said “why is this happening to me?” I cannot tell you how many times that phrase has come out of my mouth. And most times it doesn’t come out quietly. It’s more like a cry of pure outrage. The feeling of no-control takes over me and I just want to scream. I read an article recently about 911. It gave an account of the people that didn’t make it to work that day. It talked about the lady who spilled food on herself and had to go back in and change.  And a guy who missed his bus. There was another who was stuck on the NJ Turnpike due to an accident and another man who ..read more

Sometimes we have bad days. Negativity creeps in. We find ourselves thinking negative thoughts, feelings of sadness or even depression comes over us. But we needn’t let those bad days define who we are. We need to recognize it for what it is. You had a bad day. Often times when this happens we start to re-define ourselves as a negative person or a “downer”. We may even start to withdraw from friends and family feeling like we don’t want to subject them to our negativity. What we need to understand is that this is normal. There is the universal law of rhythm which states that the Universe’s ene ..read more

So often we find ourselves frustrated or depressed about our circumstances but what are we thinking about? Are we spending our time thinking of all the things we don’t like about our life? Are we thinking about all of the depressing circumstances surrounding us? Just a simple change in our thoughts could change the whole direction of our day and ultimately our lives. Focus on what you DO want instead of what you DON’T want. Prosperity or Debt? We may find ourselves wishing we didn’t have so much debt. Feeling frustrated and angry that we can’t go buy the things we really want. How will you att ..read more

What does that mean to live from the end? When you are trying to create a new reality, you must live only from and in the end result. Get Into The Feeling How will you feel when you have what it is you’re wanting? Say you want a new relationship. How are you going to feel while you are in that relationship?  What are the things you would be thinking about? You may think “where are we going to dinner tonight?” “What plans are we going to make for the weekend?” “Maybe we could go to the beach or maybe hang out with our friends.”  Visualize this conversation going on in your head. Use y ..read more

Regardless of circumstances. Make the conscious choice to be happy today. Most of us let the outside world dictate our happiness. The truth is, happiness is a choice and it starts with us. It starts with the thoughts we are thinking. Have you ever noticed when your day starts out rough, the rest of the day seems to continue on that path. That’s because now we’re in a negative mindset, so anything that happens will be met with negativity. We’ve all had those mornings, the cat puked or the kids are fighting. In a perfect world we would all wake up to sunshine and rainbows, birds singing and ever ..read more

Making a decision is decidedly one of the hardest, yet most important thing any of us need to do in order to move forward in life. It is the very first objective that we need to accomplish to get us moving toward the thing we want.  How often have you found yourself on the fence over making a decision? Do I stay or do I go? Do I take the new job or stay where I feel safe? It is natural for us to feel apprehensive when faced with decision. It is our inner paradigm that kicks in trying to protect us from making a mistake. But too often we let that paradigm win. Never making a decision that ..read more

In this article I interview Dalandra Young and review her new children’s book, Noonimals: Believe. The Premise Best-selling author Dalandra Young brings to life again, her unique and lovable Noonimals characters. In this story, they teach kids how to use the law of attraction and empower them with the knowledge that their thoughts alone can create a life they love. Why I Love It Dalandra does a great job of easily and gently explaining the principles of how to use the law of attraction in 7 easy steps. With amazing 3-D illustrations, the characters come to life in a playful, energetic and beau ..read more

It can be a goal of how much weight you want to lose or by a certain time. Maybe a goal of how much money you want to earn in the next 3 months, 6 months or within the next year. It can be a goal about the type of relationship you want to be in or a specific goal for your business. Whatever your goal is the process will always be the same. Follow these 9 steps to achieve any goal. Setting Goals Is The First Step In Turning The Invisible Into The Visible ~ tony robbins Step 1 Set a specific goal and be clear on it. Before you can achieve any goal you first need to get straight on what it is yo ..read more

The best thing we can do for our kids is to teach them how their thoughts become things. That how changing their thoughts can change how their life will evolve. Let them know how the law of attraction works. They don’t learn this in school. So you as the parent need to empower your kids with this knowledge. Let Them Have an Imagination Encourage them to use their imagination, whether at play and as they get older. Tell them that imagination is a wonderful thing. Everything we see that has ever been created started in someone’s imagination. All the great thinkers and creators who have ever made ..read more

The more we “want” something, the further away it gets from us.  The key to manifesting your desires is to believe that what you want is on its way. You will see it when you believe it. Not the other way around. The reality is that what we believe in our heart, not our mind, is what we attract. Thinking with our head is really only ‘wishful thinking’. We need to believe in our hearts that what we want is not only coming, but is already here. Sounds crazy but that’s really how it works. How Do We Believe With Our Heart? Have you ever said the phrase “I believe with all my heart…….”  T ..read more