The Kitchen Table
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The Kitchen Table's purpose is to share with you an engaging dialogue that we hope will reveal the dynamic world of cognitive science and the role it plays in performance. For over four-decade your co-host Ron Medved and Gregg Cochlan have work with hundreds of organizations to apply cognitive psychology, science, and practices to ignite human and organizational performance.
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5d ago
The Presidential Debate: First Impressions
In this episode, Gregg, Ron, and Dave Share their first impressions of the debate. Going deeper than who might have won, the guys use the wisdom models to look at the dynamics of the social psychology behind people’s conclusions. From tribalism to political correctness to the ability to actually change one’s mind.
References:
Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck
https://spiraldynamics.net
Summary of Developmental Theory- Spiral Dynamics - Eight Stages
1. Beige: This is the most basic level of consc ..read more
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5d ago
In this episode, Gregg, Ron, and Dave use the architecture of the Wisdom Model to dissect their real life stories. Finding wisdom in little kids, in relationship with family members. On another level, how does wisdom survive in a world full of disinformation? It takes adult-level self analysis. Here are a few tools
Additional References
Core Wisdom Formula: Experience + Knowledge + Maturity = Wisdom (+)
The formula highlights the interdependence of three key components in developing wisdom:
1. Experience: Encompasses personal interactions, emotions, and perceptions, forming the subjective l ..read more
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5d ago
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron give examples using the wisdom models in everyday life. Whether the issue is local or national or global, it helps to have a framework to self-assess our own role in the dialogue. Sometimes we are the facilitator. Sometimes the advocate. Sometimes it’s a success to just survive our own anxiety. And to know the difference.
Core Wisdom Formula
Experience + Knowledge+ Maturity = Wisdom +
Experience
The human experience encompasses the entirety of an individual's interactions, emotions, perceptions, and thoughts throughout their life journey.
I ..read more
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5d ago
A Reflection On Maturity And Summer’s Politics:
In this episode, Dave, Gregg and Ron offer their wisdom models, especially Dave’s analysis on the four capabilities of maturity. Mature thinking must include empathy and not just confrontation. Are we being emotional in our worldview, but increasing the threat in our politics. We can smarter, wiser. We can be better.
Additional References
Maturity in the Study of Wisdom- Dave Derksen
With greater maturity comes a greater likelihood that one may offer a wise response in any situation. Knowledge from study and insight from experie ..read more
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5d ago
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron deepen their understanding of what goes into the wisdom equation. Elements are sometimes a noun, sometimes a verb, and all go into the cauldron of what we call our creative subconscious. Percolating. Wisdom can emerge spontaneously, or later, after careful consideration. In the end, it’s wise actions that speak your truth
Reference Links
In this podcast we reference two sites; 75 Stoic Statements and VIA Character Strength Test, you may find it helpful to review the stoic statement but as well take the free character strength assessment.
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5d ago
In this podcast, Gregg, Dave, and Ron bring together their collective thoughts about Wisdom. Moving closer to a true formula after a one-year conversation. Experiences. Knowledge. Maturity. Past discussions all adding up to a fuller definition and appreciation of the elements of Wisdom in action.
Reference
What is Noosphere
https://humanenergy.io/projects/what-is-the-noosphere/
What is Dunning & Kruger Effect
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect ..read more
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5d ago
In this episode,Gregg, Ron, and Dave start to pull together the year-long conversation about “what is wisdom?”. Partly a summary of our previous podcasts on wisdom, this episode also includes some new conclusions. Thoughts about maturity. Just what is an elder. And how wisdom can be seen as both a noun and a verb. Finally, an endearing story showing wisdom in action, featuring the late Dr. Glenn Terrell, former Washington State University President.
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5d ago
Wisdom Practice - Understanding Elon Musk, Understanding Ourselves
In this eposide, Gregg, Dave, and Ron use an interview of Elon Musk to see what Elon’s story triggers in them. Why do I react the way that I do? Do I like him? Do I judge him? Am I impressed, why or why not? We unpack our reactions, and become more self-aware. It can be a worthwhile trip, to dive beneath our first impressions.
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The tech billionaire Elon Musk has come to define innovation, but he can also be a lightning rod for controversy; he recently endorsed antisemitic remarks on X, formerly known as Twitter ..read more
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5d ago
In this episode, Dave, Ron, and Gregg examine the motivation behind our speaking. Is it ego? Is it fear? Is it our generosity of spirit? What is the wise thinking that proceeds wise speaking? We have some ideas.
Note: In this podcast we refer to spiral dynamics & developmental theory here's a link in a summary.
Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck
https://spiraldynamics.net
Summary of Developmental Theory- Spiral Dynamics - Eight Stages
1. Beige: This is the most basic level of consciousness, characterized by a focus on survival a ..read more
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5d ago
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron explore how to aid wisdom to surface in our everyday lives. Dinner parties. Discussions over beer. Meeting an old friend. When discussing serious issues can we be kind and generous? Or is it just about looking smart, being right? We want to grow in wisdom, even if it costs us our certainty.
In this episode we refer to Donning- Kruger effect here is the link to understand
https://www.britannica.com/science/Dunning-Kruger-effect
The difference between dialogue and discussion.
Dialogue
· To inquire to learn
· To ..read more