The Blended Family Coaching Show
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We're Mike and Kim Anderson. We set out on our blended family adventure over 19 years ago thinking it would be a cinch but quickly found out how complicated things can be. Following a painful co-parenting battle with an Ex, we found ourselves disconnected and teetering on the brink of divorce. Then we got to work discovering how to overcome all our challenges and guide our family to..
The Blended Family Coaching Show
3d ago
Stepdads need courage!
Navigating all the complexities, confusion, and common frustrations is not for the faint-hearted.
But it's not just courage stepdad's need, they also need community. Sure, lots of guys operate as if they can fix the challenges, untangle the complexities, and "be the hero" on their own — but most experience relief and reassurance when they discover they're not alone!
Our special guest, Mike Haney is on a mission to encourage stepdads and share what he's learned through almost 23 years of blending!
In this episode, I (Kim) will be interviewing two stepd ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
1w ago
Resources
Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz: https://form.typeform.com/to/DSz44d52?typeform-source=www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com
Book: Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal
Book: Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal and Gary Chapman
CLICK HERE to join the waitlist for upcoming membership to our Blending Together community
Smart Stepfamily Therapy Providers:   ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
3w ago
Fear is often driven by the unknown…
…and it's no surprise that many couples struggle with all the unknown factors of blending. Ambiguity is simply part of the blending journey.
All the ambiguity can quickly lead to fear:
fear of what might happen if blending doesn't go well
fear of failing.
fear of how the kids might react
fear of the impact of an unsupportive Ex Spouse
When it comes to blending a family, there's no shortage of realities that can create valid fear and real concerns.
But blending can sometimes trigger fear that's somewhat irrational or anticipatory too.
Al ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
1M ago
Resources
Episode 178. Surviving the Turbulent Teen Years: Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent - with Special Guest, Dr. Michael Bradley
Book: Crazy-Stressed by Dr. Michael J. Bradley
Episode 70. 5 Simple Ingredients for Healthy Tech Habits with Your Kids — with Special Guest, Rob Hayes-St. Clair
Episode 20: 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex has Different Rules
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The Blended Family Coaching Show
1M ago
Ever felt like your teen is completely crazy or maybe you feel like the crazy one — you're not alone!
Raising teens is not for the faint-hearted parent or stepparent. But what if this "crazy" season doesn't have to be filled with fear or anger? What if you could find practical ways to hold boundaries, stay connected, and experience a little peace even as you support your teen in their journey to adulthood?
In this episode, we'll explore why teenagers behave in ways that are crazy and how you can equip yourself to better understand, support, and connect with them.
To he ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
1M ago
Do you remember that vibrant sense of friendship you had early on in your relationship — the strong connection that created an irresistible longing just to be with each other?
Isn't it crazy how the packed schedules, complex relationships, and differences of perspective, take you from irresistible to irritated in no time flat! It might leave you feeling more like business partners or roommates these days. Or worse yet, battling foes rather than friends.
When real life happens, it can rob you of the closeness you once experienced and leave you feeling disconnected or dissatisfied ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
2M ago
Resources for this Simple Step:
Episode 175. 8 Tips to Protect Kids From Stress and Tension When Moving Between Homes
Episode 7. Toxic Exes and Hurting Kids - 5 Steps That Help
Episode 8. Toxic Exes and Defiant Kids - A Simple Strategy Against Lies and Slander
Episode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids
Episode 42. Our Challenging Story of Parental Alienation — and 6 Tips For You
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The Blended Family Coaching Show
2M ago
Children moving between two homes WANT one thing — to be connected to the people they love. And what they NEED most is to experience peace and freedom to simply enjoy time spent with each of their parents.
This might seem simple, but many kids don't get what they want or need due to unhealthy co-parenting patterns. Most often, that leads to unnecessary stress and tension for kids.
Why do we say it's unnecessary?
Because parents and step-parents CAN make a difference and protect the kids. When you do your part to follow the 8 tips we share in this episode, you'll be set ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
2M ago
Resources for this episode
Episode 174. How to Raise Confident Kids by Building a Solid Foundation for Success in Life [with Special Guest Nellie Harden]
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We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experienc ..read more
The Blended Family Coaching Show
3M ago
You want to raise kids who are equipped for success in life, right? You want them to have confidence, a sense of esteem, and worth. But this can feel like an unattainable goal in a world constantly sending mixed messages. Maybe you've felt hopeless when you add in the wake of complex family dynamics and trauma that may have occurred in your family along the way.
But the truth is, it's not hopeless and your parental voice matters — even in those moments when it doesn't feel that way.
Our expert guest in this episode, Nellie Harden, offers every parent real hope!   ..read more