I pose this question to my sister and she told me no one would show up to the family reunion if I was running it. No one is coming to a family reunion to get there problems worked out. So I said, I guess family reunions are not about keeping family together and growing. She said well ..read more

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I've been doing a huge amount of research into herpes, as I'm currently dating someone with genital herpes and it's quite alarming how severe the stigma is. So according to the statistics, 67% globally have herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) infection, the main cause of oral herpes. That's 3.7 billion! An estimated 491 million people aged 15–49 (13%) worldwide have herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2) infection, the main cause of genital herpes. That's 491 million. With such huge numbers... The herpes stigma ..read more

I (45M) have a wife (27F) and our relationship was going pretty strong before the start of all of this, but now I have to reconsider. My wife came home one evening a full half hour later than usual. I asked her what had kept her, and she said the traffic was bad. The same thing happened the next day, I questioned her about it, and she admitted she'd gone to get a drink with a male coworker, and she didn't tell me this because she "knows how I am with these things". I promptly reminded her... I imposed a curfew on my wife and grounded her when she didn't follow it ..read more

If you've read my other threads, this didn't exactly come as a surprise. But it's bad. Really bad. I don't know what to do next. He's very kind and affectionate with our child as he should be, but the minute he talks at me, his face says it all. To say he is short with me is an understatement. If I say more than a couple of words, he gets annoyed. He can't stand to even look at me. I feel like I am walking on eggshells, and it only seems to get worse every passing minute. I just know that... Update. He's back, but he's seething with resentment ..read more

For the past couple years my husband and I would get into many fights. He would be short with me or get angry easily. I would be stupid or an asshole for everything that I did or say. I became beaten down (by his words), deflated, and not feel good about my own self esteem. I would talk and tell my friends who I worked with my problems and it felt good to vent to them. I couldn't talk to my husband because he would not reciprocate or get mad and talk down to me. He also refused to go to... Am i right or wrong ..read more

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How this isn't a hill to die on. As this progresses and time permits I'll share how W and I do it, tips and how to make it efficient and not really an issue. I take it for granted everyone knows all these tips and strategies. But in reality that's not true. And there's likely some I don't know. Although few I but ? but I've long since learned I don't know everything... and so I try to always learning something. So if we all share our tips on running a clean home without all the... Cleaning a house and running a home in a marriage or ltr. Efficiency strategies and how it's really not a hill ..read more

OK I want to open up a discussion as to what you believe constitutes sex and what then in turn constitutes virginity. By everyone's definition I would think sex is the sexual activity typically involving the insertion and thrusting of the male penis inside the female vagina. But many say that other forms of penetrative sexual intercourse like oral sex, fingerings, genital rubbing counts as sex as well... What do you think it is and is a virgin who has never experienced vaginal intercourse... What is SEX and VIRGINITY ..read more