When we got outside, the wind had subsided (a bit, not enough), and we met our friends at the playground. The kids ran off together to dig a giant hole in a sand pit, a task which occupied them for over an hour, while the adults gathered around a wooden table and pretended it wasn’t too cold to be sitting down outside. “Beer?” my mate asked, placing a bag for life full of bottles on the table. “Sure.” Despite being unable to feel my hands, it turned into an enjoyable afternoon and the bag of booze served as an impromptu (necessary) pre-dri ..read more

Every 4-6 weeks, I take the car for a mini valet. I appreciate this is lazy but, amidst the endless reams of soul-sapping admin and domestic chores that accompany being a 37-year-old, sacrificing hours of my life to hose and hoover our Dacia Sandero is where I draw a line.  There are few things on earth more horrifying than the back of a family car when you remove the child seats and, as I pulled up at The Big Car Wash on Kirkstall Road and evaluated the filth: crumbs, dry mud, and a McDonald’s fry that could feasibly have been there for a month, I considered whether t ..read more

A week before Louise’s birthday, I fell down the stairs. Just before I got into bed, I had my infuriating nightly thought, “Did I definitely lock the front door?” and, despite being 1000% sure that I had, I knew sleep would not be forthcoming unless I checked. Somehow, I lost my footing on the second step and clattered down to the bottom where I lay in a crumpled heap in darkness.  “What the hell is going on?” Louise said, emerging in the glow of the bathroom light. She told me I had woken up the boys and terrified her as she thought it was a burglar – albeit a bad one ..read more

Pre-children, my first commitment on a Saturday was watching Football Focus at midday. Nowadays, by the time the opening credits are rolling, I am ready for a lie-down.  We have entered the age of weekend sports. On one hand, this is lovely as it gives the boys an opportunity to exercise, socialize and grow as people. On the other, it means we cannot do as we please on a Saturday for the next 10-15 years as this cherished part of the week is now spent making touchline small talk with other flagging parents. A couple of weeks ago, I learned that going out on a Friday night is now more reck ..read more

“I don’t like Frozen anymore, Daddy,” Jacob declared less than a week before his 100% Frozen-themed 4th birthday party. “But you’ve loved it for the past year? Could you not just hang in there for a bit longer, buddy?” “It’s boring. I only like animals now.” “Can you not like Frozen and animals?” “Don’t be so silly, Daddy.” As if this revelation wasn’t enough of a headache, the day before the party, I was handed a shopping list so complex it felt like I was participating in a task on The Apprentice. My Morrisons search for 24 minipacks of Skittles proved fruitless (pardon the pu ..read more

The first week of January is, without doubt, the worst time of the year and cracks are starting to appear. When an Amazon man hammered on our door at 7 a.m. the other day, Louise was less than thrilled. “Why are you being so loud at this time?” she said. “I wasn’t sure if anyone was in. Anyway, I’ve dropped off the package now.” “Where have you put it?” “I carefully placed it over your fence.” “Do you mean our 8-foot fence? You carefully placed it over that? You definitely didn’t throw it?’ “Sorry, miss,” he said as if addressing a prison guard, before scuttling sheepishly down the drive. Pre ..read more

When a colleague changed the radio station to Heart Christmas on Tuesday 14th November, I stood up and, with uncharacteristic assertion, said. “No, don’t be ridiculous.” It felt good to put my foot down. Unfortunately, I was overruled and, having heard “Stop the Cavalry” twice before lunch, tempted to put my coat on, walk out of the fire exit and just keep on walking. My Bah Humbug approach, however, was a touch hypocritical. Since becoming parents, we (Louise) have started ramping up the Christmas hype machine early and the weekend saw wall-to-wall festive activities. On Friday morning, the b ..read more

I first went to Blackpool with two friends in 2002. We’d seen an advert for The Syndicate, allegedly the UK’s biggest nightclub at the time and, as passionate clubbers (regulars in the one nightclub in Leeds that accepted our International Student fake IDs), we decided we needed to experience it. Accommodation was deemed unnecessary – we would simply stay in the club until it closed at 3 a.m., then whittle away the hours until the first train back to Leeds. No problem. Armed with £60 between us and covered in unsociable quantities of Lynx and Dax wax, we shared a small bottle of Glen’s vodka o ..read more

Our wedding turned out to be considerably more expensive than we'd envisaged. It turns out weddings cost absolutely loads. Who knew? I'm not saying we are deserving of sympathy, though. A harpist, for instance, is not essential. Despite generous contributions from our parents, we were still coming up short so, in the months leading up to the big day, a quickfire money-making scheme needed hatching. Louise was unconvinced by my idea of a trip to Napoleon's Casino, and suggested, instead, that we list our house on Airbnb. “Do many people visit Leeds, though?” I asked. “Well, I've somehow en ..read more

We went camping near Castle Howard in North Yorkshire recently. I am not yet convinced by camping - it seems an awful lot of hassle to make yourself voluntarily homeless - but, last year, Louise spontaneously bought all the gear anyone would ever need (from a man on Facebook) and will be damned if we don’t make the most of it. After returning home from our previous trip with a broken tent pole, a broken spirit, and three relentless days of washing cycles awaiting, I subtly suggested we might break even if we sold the gear on ASAP, but this was met with short shrift. “The boys loved it, Andy ..read more