Over "Doing" is a cover up and mask for underlying emotional pain, predominantly UNconscious fear of feeling insecure and not good enough.   My client, Kris and I talk about why this happens and how to stop it!  Human beings are automatically taught to DO more than feel in order to survive through life. Simply put, we are taught to do more to have more to be happy and fulfilled. This is completely wrong! Actually, counterproductive. I lived this way, and it NEVER worked, nor was it ever close to sustainable. It's counter intuitive, and I've learned by experience that the fastest ..read more

Crisis will make or break us. I was evacuated from the inferno of the California wildfires. When the evacuation order sounded, I froze.  This time having learned from that experience, and since then,  trained rigorously for high level mental performance, I did NOT freeze. I was ready! However, I had no REAL idea how ready I was, until I was faced with the IRL ordeal.  Night and day difference of how I was able to deal with this mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially. Everything lined up better than I could have ever foreseen. The more I trusted the proces ..read more

Wrapping up this episode takes us down more roads of wisdom into the Counter-Intuitive ways of getting what we want in the year ahead. Achieving goals. Forward projections. Future intentions. Progress. Results. Desires. Dreams. The direct streamline route is living in the Right Here Right NOW. Being in the present moment based on our powerful perceptions that fuel our emotions that drive our actions!!!!!!!!!! Are you functioning from REaction or PROaction? Big difference.  Managing your emotions or are they managing YOU?  Are you forcing growth or growing freely? Working harder or sm ..read more

The most profoundly passionate way to grow your future is to grow your PRESENT, which is truly a gift. True wealth is having what you desire most in all areas of life!  Thanks Kris K for joining me to help ring in the New Year ..read more

"To each his (your) own," as the saying goes! Sharing my expereinces and thoughts on the pros & cons of my personal experience with conventional therapy. And, how it has directly and indirectly influenced not only my coahing methods, but my life.  Every human being can benefit from "Therapy." I highly recomment it! And then, there is taking Self-Development to a whole NEW level, and the coaching I practice, teach and preach "Blew My MInd." It connected me to mySELF, and to all Human Beings in ways I never thought possible!  This may sound weird, but since early childhood, I could ..read more

Tired of having to do things, rather than wanting to do things? If you are human then you can relate to this! It's all about the choices and decisions you make consciously and UNCONSCIOUSLY. Case & Point: Marilyn admits that she doesn't want to spend time and care for her husband, who is suffering from dementia, after decades of marriage. WTF? It's NOT about her husband or her marriage, it's about subconscious REBELLION stemming from early childhood causing emotional blindspots. This undetectible resentment causes Marilyn to unintentionally avoid and escape the uneasiness hidden by, w ..read more

All humans, whether consciously or UNconsciously possess an inherent need to be "Significant." However, significance is subjective and means so many different things to each and everyone of us. It's illusive, simple because it's a matter of perspective and opinion. So, it really comes down to feeling a "Sense of Significance," from within.  This stems from early childhood. #ChildhoodMatters  My client, Kris K and I dig deeper into this topic to help others start to understand why we FEAR being INSIGNIFICANT. And how to tackle this fear to gain an empowering perspective that crea ..read more

When it comes to progress the human brain fears the lack thereof. The last thing we want to do is scale back in order to scale up. Who in their right mind wants to go backwards, especially when huge progress has been made.  By nature we do not want to feel like we are losing momentum and progression. We fear feeling stuck, especially feeling like we're losing traction.  Kris opens up about having to go through this as he steps into greater endeavors as an entrepreneur. #StepByStep A SuperHuman mindset requires being willing to go back to the fundamentals. Almost in essence, feeling l ..read more

I offer more in depth wisdom on this topic because the human mind tricks us into believing that getting more, making more, having more, more, more means we are MORE. More important, more worthy, more popular, more valuable, more respected, etc. This is an insidious lie that when taken too far becomes our greatest weakness, which feeds right back into perpetuating a volatile cycle of SELF-Sabotage. Learn how to stop it through the power of your mind & heart ..read more

"Watch out for what you wish for!" It's one thing to want something. It's another whole thing to get it, and then have to deal with the the things you didn't EXPECT?!! With great success comes even greater responsibilities, and more obligations. The illusion is that once we actually get what we want, life will be easier and all of our problems will be solved.  So, NOT true! "Without darkness, there is no light." There is good & bad, positive & negative to every situation.  Pick the side of more pros than cons. #MajorityRules  Your conscious mind makes up a wish. This is ..read more