After a narcissist relationship, many people go through the “Angry Stage” of healing. They’re angry at the narcissist, for wasting their time. Angry at their enablers. And perhaps most significantly, they’re angry at themselves. It’s natural to be angry. Because the narcissist held you back for so long. And made life a living hell. But you must be kind to yourself. Yes you were duped. But who knew that someone would be capable of living a complete lie? Someone who had such a lack of empathy that they never really cared about you. Despite spending years with you? I certainly didn’t! We’re taugh ..read more

Most people leave narcissist relationships in worse health than they entered. And it’s no wonder. Narcissists typically cause their partners flight or fight hormones to go into overdrive. Because of their erratic behaviours, and selfish attitudes. These stress hormones aren’t supposed to be triggered all the time. They’re designed to get us out of immediate danger, then quickly return back to base levels. Narcissists heighten these levels most of the time. Which over time, damages our body’s. On top of this, most partners of narcissists receive little, if any help from them. Yet they’re expect ..read more

Please share with someone who needs to hear this… You may think you’re missing the narcissist, but you’re probably not. You may miss someone being there for you. And being part of a relationship. But narcissists aren’t there for you. And they’re not proper relationships. They’re one-sided affairs, and they’re in it for themselves. The narcissists mission is to take as much as they can, whilst giving as little as possible. So they actually drain you. Rather than give you anything meaningful. Please Watch The Following Short Video To Aid Your Understanding… If you still feel you’re missing them ..read more

I spend a lot of time writing on this blog, and discussing narcissism across social media. And quite often I get people trying to shut me down. They say various things that lead to them to conclude that I should stop talking about narcissism. How’s that for free speech?! And many of these same “reasons” keep cropping up. So I thought I’d share them here. If you talk regularly about narcissism online, then you’ll probably hear some of these same objections. Because I’ve heard them many times. And others I know have too. Learning what narcissists say to shut you down helps you be ready with a re ..read more

From a legal perspective, most narcissists aren’t neglectful. They may contribute towards a roof over your head. And food on the table. But that’s about as far as it goes. There’s many small things we do in loving relationships, that show we care. And whilst no one’s perfect, most of us deliver the majority of these things, most of the time. Narcissists, on the other hand, hardly do any of these smaller things. And the shear weight of things they don’t do, leaves us feeling neglected. I once remember a friend of my ex’s daughter visiting our house, and we were all eating ice lolly’s. When I fi ..read more

Here’s a collection of infographics about narcissism. Please share them on social media, and help spread awareness! Please Check Out The Following Short Video… Please CLICK HERE For My Collection Of Narcissism Quotes Or Scroll Down For My Most Popular Articles… Quotes About Narcissism The post Narcissism Infographics first appeared on Narcissisms.Com. The post Narcissism Infographics appeared first on Narcissisms.Com ..read more

Not all narcissists are hoarders, and not all hoarders are narcissists. But there’s a correlation. From my observations, a significant number of narcissists show some hoarding behaviour. Particularly those with borderline traits. Narcissist hoarders may have homes that resemble junk yards. Making simple tasks, such as cooking and even cleaning, a logistical nightmare. Yet they seem oblivious to the chaos around them. Why do some narcissists hoard, when it makes their life more difficult? What do they get from it? Do they know they’re doing it? In this article I’ll explore the reasons why narci ..read more

It’s common for narcissists to disturb peoples sleep. And there’s many ways they do this. They might cause an argument, just before bedtime. Bang around early in the morning, or late at night. Or blatantly prod you until you wake. But hypocritically, they scream the house down if you tiptoe past and accidentally wake them. Why are narcissists hell bent on keeping you awake? Is it deliberate? What’s going on? Here’s why narcissists disturb your sleep… Please Watch The Following Short Video To Aid Your Understanding… Narcissists Need Attention Most narcissists can’t go more than a few minutes w ..read more

You’ve probably noticed that narcissists are better talkers than listeners. And dominate most conversations. You may see the narcissists eyes glaze over when you speak. As they’re searching for more pearls of wisdom. Rather than letting your words resonate. The narcissists may offer vague answers at best. Which imply they weren’t listening to you. And at worst, completely blank you. You may also notice that narcissists don’t retain what you tell them. And despite a long detailed conversation, they may not even remember having it. Which shows the lack of attention they’re paying. Why don’t narc ..read more

It helps to distinguish between ghosting and no contact. Because narcissists blur the lines between them. And use their similarities to either defend their toxic behaviours, or attack you. Understanding the difference between ghosting and no contact helps you deal with narcissists. Because you’re pre-prepared for this confusing manipulation. Before we delve into how narcissists manipulate the similarities, here’s a quick description of ghosting and no contact… Please Watch The Following Short Video To Aid Your Understanding… Ghosting Ghosting is when someone completely withdraws communication ..read more