We’re taught that empathy is good. And for the most part it is. Empathy is putting yourself in other peoples shoes. It encourages people to grow and mature, as they... The post How “Toxic Empathy” Plays Into Narcissists Hands first appeared on Narcissisms.Com ..read more

If you’ve been close to a narcissist, then you’ve probably noticed their criticisms. They may criticise your appearance. Your hobbies and interests. And even your family and friends. Pretty much... The post Why Narcissists Criticise So Much first appeared on Narcissisms.Com ..read more

Neuro-typical relationships often grow stronger over time. Bonds are built. They learn about each other, and grow together. But the opposite is usually true with narcissists. Narcissists often idealise their partners at the beginning. And treat them like they’re the most precious thing on earth. Then over time, they grow to resent, and even hate them. Why such a stark difference? There’s several reasons why narcissists think less of partners over time. In this article I’ll discuss why narcissists hate come to their partners… Please Watch The Following Short Video To Aid Your Understanding… In ..read more

People who’ve never experienced a narcissist relationship often ask why you didn’t leave them. And whilst it’s annoying, it’s understandable. It’s difficult to explain what narcissist relationships are like, to someone who’s never experienced one. And because of their lack of experience, they naturally think in terms of dealing with neuro-typicals. But narcissists are far from that. Narcissists deliberately make it difficult to leave them. Because once you’re locked in, they can get away with treating you worse. And the more tied in you are, the worse than can treat you. Whilst still keeping y ..read more

After learning about narcissism, it can seem like narcissists are everywhere. Some work colleagues display red flags. You see narcissistic behaviour in the media and on the news. And even some of your family and friends show signs. Why does it seem like narcissists are everywhere? Here’s a few reasons why… Please Watch The Following Short Video To Aid Your Understanding… You’re A Narcissist Magnet Some people are narcissist magnets. Particularly those who were brought up by narcissist parents. Narcissists are obviously takers. With this in mind, it’s no surprise what trait they look for in ot ..read more

Assertiveness is the sweet spot between passive and aggressive. When you’re assertive, you express your thoughts, feelings, and needs openly and honestly, while respecting others. Think of it as standing your ground, without stepping on anyone else’s shoes. Narcissists often target passive people. But even if you weren’t passive before, you may be after the narcissist has finished with you. Narcissists wear us down over time, as they constantly test our boundaries. And use mind games and manipulations to get their way. After a while, a once confident and assertive person can become a shell of ..read more

After a narcissist relationship, many people go through the “Angry Stage” of healing. They’re angry at the narcissist, for wasting their time. Angry at their enablers. And perhaps most significantly, they’re angry at themselves. It’s natural to be angry. Because the narcissist held you back for so long. And made life a living hell. But you must be kind to yourself. Yes you were duped. But who knew that someone would be capable of living a complete lie? Someone who had such a lack of empathy that they never really cared about you. Despite spending years with you? I certainly didn’t! We’re taugh ..read more

Most people leave narcissist relationships in worse health than they entered. And it’s no wonder. Narcissists typically cause their partners flight or fight hormones to go into overdrive. Because of their erratic behaviours, and selfish attitudes. These stress hormones aren’t supposed to be triggered all the time. They’re designed to get us out of immediate danger, then quickly return back to base levels. Narcissists heighten these levels most of the time. Which over time, damages our body’s. On top of this, most partners of narcissists receive little, if any help from them. Yet they’re expect ..read more

Please share with someone who needs to hear this… You may think you’re missing the narcissist, but you’re probably not. You may miss someone being there for you. And being part of a relationship. But narcissists aren’t there for you. And they’re not proper relationships. They’re one-sided affairs, and they’re in it for themselves. The narcissists mission is to take as much as they can, whilst giving as little as possible. So they actually drain you. Rather than give you anything meaningful. Please Watch The Following Short Video To Aid Your Understanding… If you still feel you’re missing them ..read more

I spend a lot of time writing on this blog, and discussing narcissism across social media. And quite often I get people trying to shut me down. They say various things that lead to them to conclude that I should stop talking about narcissism. How’s that for free speech?! And many of these same “reasons” keep cropping up. So I thought I’d share them here. If you talk regularly about narcissism online, then you’ll probably hear some of these same objections. Because I’ve heard them many times. And others I know have too. Learning what narcissists say to shut you down helps you be ready with a re ..read more