As Christians, we are told to seek the Lord. The phrase is repeated over and over in God’s Word in many different ways. We know it is true, but it feels like something too ideal to accomplish, something religious. Imagine my surprise when I found the phrase walked out in the Old Testament in the lives of the kings of Judah! There is actually practical advice about how to prepare your heart to seek the Lord! Seek The Lord Bible Verses First, before we dig into the practical application of how to seek the Lord, we need a review. What does the Bible say about seeking the Lord? Seek the Lord whil ..read more

Do you ever wonder what it means, “and the two shall become one flesh?” What is a one-flesh marriage?  Can you be one flesh in a difficult marriage?  These are all questions I’ve asked over the years as I strive to become a godly wife.  Today Aimee from A Work of Grace will share 4 essential steps to become one flesh in a Christian marriage. Where Does It Say, And The Two Shall Become One Flesh In the Bible? Before Aimee Shares, I wanted to share the Scripture references for this topic to get us all on the same page. Where does it say, “And the two shall become one flesh,” in th ..read more

  Most of us – if we are honest – are dreaming of a happily ever after.  We expect marriage to lead to that fairy-tale ending in life.  Happiness in Marriage is the goal.  But what does the Bible say about happiness in marriage?  To help us answer that question today is Jen Weaver Why ask, “What Does the Bible Say About Happiness in Marriage?” I (Jen Weaver*) thought married life would be more than this.  I thought it would be full of happiness.  Has that phrase ever crossed your mind or spilled from your lips? I know it has mine. My premarital daydreams feat ..read more

Are there ever Biblical reasons for divorce? As a Christian Marriage Mentor, I think my answer will surprise you. It is controversial even. Yes. There are many reasons a Christian could file for divorce Biblically. Among them are 7 Biblical grounds for divorce that we will look at today! Adultery Treachery Virtual Infidelity Abandonment by an unbeliever Lack of peace, leading a spouse away from the Lord. There are many other legitimate reasons for divorce. Period. Including: Abuse Addiction Personally, I believe addiction could fall under abuse but it could stand alone. Why Are We Talk ..read more

Why do we need to know how to use I statements in marriage competently? There are seasons in marriage that provoke us to use toxic words, words that destroy the lines of communication. Learning to use I statements shifts the tension by avoiding blame, shame, or guilt. I statements can keep the conversation open and loving. Today we will see 9 steps for using I statements in marriage effectively: Let toxic words raise a red flag. Prayerfully reflect on what is at the root of those toxic words. Forgive. Accept your spouse as they are. Evaluate your expectations. Address selfishness. Practice I ..read more

Have you been around Christians as they begin to talk about having the peace of Jesus? For years I’ve heard others pray for God’s peace, talk about feeling His peace and waiting for that sense of peace about big decisions in their lives. It can feel very… fake or at the most spiritual sometimes. Right? Today we will explore what Jesus says about peace to help us understand the idea and apply it in our lives. The Peace of Jesus: What Did Jesus Say About Peace? “Peace I leave you, My peace I give you; not as the world gives, do I give to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled, nor fe ..read more

  What do you do when, unexpectedly, you are couped up with your husband 24/7?  Whether your marriage is healthy and happy or in a difficult season, that much time together can put stress on the relationship. Here are 60 simple ways to help when my husband is driving me crazy at home! These tactics work weather your husband is home for a holiday, a vacation, or some other reason. When too much time together is not going well we need a plan to not go crazy! Why Is My Husband Is Driving Me Crazy at Home? “Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offe ..read more

Do you ever feel like your husband has completely shut down and shut you out? No matter what you say, or how you say it he’s not hearing anything.  To fix this, I had to learn to show respect in ways he understands. What Does It Mean To Show Respect In Marriage? That was our story for years. He just didn’t hear me. The truth is, he gets tired of being told he’s failed or fallen short. He just shuts down.  And while I would never call my husband a failure or tell him he fell short, I did imply those things… For years, I nagged him about doing things my way. I complained about what he ..read more

Today we will look at how to be a helpmeet by better understanding help meet in the Bible. Who else ranks that word helpmeet or help mate about like submission?  Ug… I’d rather pass if I am completely honest. How about the idea of finding joy while being his helpmate? Yeah, seems like an odd pairing, but if you are here, you are also asking what the Bible says about marriage and this word is in there.  Thankfully our guest today, Christia from Faith-filled Parenting, is going to share 4 ways to find joy as a helpmeet for him. This is part of a 31-day marriage devotional you ..read more

  What are the things you’ve been praying about for a long time without an answer? Some of mine over the years include the salvation of siblings and a spouse, direction in life, infertility, unity in our church, and revival in our city. Today I will share my 11-step plan: how to prepare for a Spiritual fast for breakthroughs and answers. When you need to draw near to the LORD, to seek Him for help, you need to learn how to prepare for a Spiritual fast! Click To Tweet Why Learn How To Prepare for a Spiritual Fast? The power of prayer and fasting can not be overstated. Fasting is a way ..read more