To My Dearest Supporters, This will be my final post on this site as I will be ending my subscription with WordPress. I can no longer make payments to keep this site going so I am closing it down. Access to this site will end 18th May 2025. I am very thankful to all who ..read more

Parasites are organisms that depend on a host to survive. They specifically need a living host, which means if the host dies it is no longer of any benefit to the parasite. Narcissists have a Parasitical Nature. So, let us look at how Narcissists compare to the parasites we have in nature. 1. Exploitation of ..read more

In my mind, getting a Narcissist to leave you alone is very simple. And if you already know some of the things Narcissists are afraid of, you too, may already know the answer. My job is to EXPOSE NARCISSISTS and getting exposure is one of the Narcissist’s biggest fears. This is why Narcissists work hard ..read more

The spiritual aspect of narcissism cannot be ignored. Modern science says there is no cure for mental illnesses such as narcissistic personality disorder because they do not acknowledge the spiritual component. Narcissism is also now spreading like wildfire. And people are being told that everyone is narcissistic in some way or that some measure of narcissism ..read more

There is a phenomenon that occurs in the Narcissistic household.  And that is where the Scapegoated Child (the one singled out for blame and negative treatment) later becomes the new Golden Child (the Narcissist’s pride and joy). This can happen for a variety of reasons but it usually happens once the children are all grown up. Because if that Golden Child manages to become independent of that Narcissistic Parent, they tend to pull away from them completely and the Scapegoat child is usually willing and open to take their place.   Why would something like this happen? Well, let ..read more

Sleep is essential and needed by everyone, but many Narcissists can find sleep very stressful as their dreams can be very disturbing. But before I get into that I want to quickly address the different sleep patterns. Firstly, there are those Narcissists who struggle to fall asleep as they are kept awake worrying, over-thinking, scheming or indulging in their obsessions/addictions. Then there are those who manage to sleep well at night, as they feel like they are in sufficient control of their lives and the people around them. Don’t get me wrong: they are by no means satisfied or no longer with ..read more

When you believe in more than the physical world that you can see, you are more careful with the people you interact with and let into your space. You are more aware of the spiritual connections that can be made. So, when it comes to engaging with Narcissists it is not something to take lightly. Narcissists are spiritually sick. Within them is a dark entity that wants to hurt and destroy everyone that the Narcissist comes in contact with. Narcissists can be very charming and influential. They are not the type of people to let your guard down around. They can pull you into gossiping about someo ..read more

Today’s post is written by Jenny Tamasi, who is a registered psychologist and author of, The Psychologist & Her Narcissists: A Guide To Surviving Toxic Relationships. Buy The Book Here I really enjoy and try to apply the expression, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade” to my own sufferings and I encourage my clients to do so too.  Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is like having to keep a big sour lemon on your tongue for a prolonged time period, which can leave a very bad taste in your mouth. One of the things survivors can always control is how they think about, recov ..read more

Narcissists have a lot of pent up shame. Under that flashy image and fake smile is someone who feels worthless, ugly, unloveable and ashamed. But where does this shame come from? Enquiring minds want to know. Narcissists are made in different ways. Not all Narcissists had a traumatic childhood of abuse and abandonment. For some Narcissists they may have inherited the Narcissism from their parent without even having spent a day with that parent. Narcissism can also be learnt. No matter which way a Narcissist is formed it is the Spirit of Narcissism that attaches themselves to them that make t ..read more

The awareness and understanding of Narcissists and Narcissism is more prevalent than ever. So, these terms have become mainstream and are being used more and more every day. As a result, Narcissists are being exposed, which has led to some of them hitting Rock Bottom and seeking change. There are only a few things that can drive a Narcissist to this point of wanting change and it usually involves their world falling apart. Whether it’s the loss of a major source of supply, imprisonment or bankruptcy; these are the types of life altering events that tend to drive a Narcissist to seek change. B ..read more