Thinking about ending the year with a bang and laughs Right now the song playing in my head is “Dorime” Cause of course, who doesn’t ..read more

Moving out from home happened like a flash in my face. Just like how Ronaldo left Juventus. Left open in the field for the hunters ..read more

“my wife” “Beautiful girl” All this a girl child hears from men old as her father even before she starts to walk. At age seven, she is carried on her uncle's lap to reply to his hello. She walks into a shop with her mother, and men comment, “ such a beautiful girl ..read more

Living a stress free life in 2021 is on everyone's wishlist right now. I mean, I crave it. I hate having to eat only crackers the whole day because I'm too stressed from work to cook. I hate having to see my mom on some days because she is too stressed to chit chat. So yeah, I haven't seen anyone who likes stress, or enjoys been stressed. I've seen some of my friends who have been so bitchy and unapproachable because of stress. Some are disgusted with their work, not because it's too hot to handle, but because their clients are embodied with stress; they carry stress like a fragrance to choke ..read more

Dear You, I write this letter in angry tears...in fact, this lemon top of mine is been scarred with dry wasted tears even as I write this. I write this to hide it in my drawer but I'm hoping it gets to you. Wishing that my tears would embrace yours. Praying that these angry tears would stop flowing, but I can't control it. So just for today, I'm letting it flow. Those piercing words you've probably heard before, I heard again last night, and its echoes replaying in my tiny little head brought these uncontrolable angry tears. The voice of rejection. The voice of selfishness That same voice that ..read more

Things to improve your mental health are as easy to come by as things needed to improve your physical health. Once you notice any sign of weakness in your body, or any symptom of sickness, the first thing you do is, make a run for medications, prescriptions, exercise, anything to heal your body and make you healthy, but when it comes to your mental health, it becomes extremely difficult to take care of it. There are a lot of physically fit people with mental health issues on the streets. Why ..read more

There are interesting facts about Abuja that may or may not be interesting to you but are important we discuss about. Having visited 21 states in the country and 15 more states left to achieve my travel goals of visiting the complete 36 states of the federation, I was excited about coming to Abuja, the federal capital territory of Nigeria for the first time. It had been one of my travel goals for 2021 and it's beautiful how surprisingly, everything went smoothly. I packed my bags with my travel necessities ( if you know me, I don't miss packing my travel must have's for any trip) and began thi ..read more

Are you having bad days? I bet you are or once were. Truth is, I also have bad days. Who doesn't? Sometimes we worry, sometimes the office gets toxic, sometimes parenting becomes stressful, sometimes working becomes draining, sometimes rest seems far fetched, sometimes we are faced with stumbling blocks, sometimes memories of that trauma haunts you again, sometimes something triggers the pain of losing that person, and sometimes even adulthood alone stresses the hell out of you. And the crazy part is that, on those bad days we lash out, transfer aggression, become quiet, overthink, talk about ..read more

Does time heal every wound? A question I asked myself after i watched something few weeks back when an elderly man tapped a younger man on the shoulder and said "time heals all wounds lad." And I burst out laughing. Really? Who was he kidding? I guess he was just trying to encourage the young guy or make him feel better about the situation. Maybe it worked but I'm sure latter he would realize the bitter truth. I bought a gorgeous heel three years ago and it was sparkling and clean and everything that makes a shoe new. Now I'm staring at it in the wardrobe and its no longer shinning, no longer ..read more

Its April! Yayyy!!! Welcome to the month of April, a month blessed with juicy april fools day stories. Because it's April fools day. Yippee!!! Okay please don't fool me today I beg you. Waking up this morning made me happy because today is my friends birthday (Happy birthday Aida) and couldn't help but remember that today is also April fools day with comes with lots of April fools day stories. I don't know who invented this April fools day but I'm eternally grateful to that person. For setting out a day where we get to fool or prank people to our hearts content and enjoy their reaction ..read more