DISCLAIMER: You’re likely to get offended by this article (Not like I care much anyway). I’ll reiterate that this blog is a Lifestyle/Opinion blog. You are welcome to disagree or agree, healthy arguments are welcome in the comment section. Also, please note that atheist comments will be ignored, better not to make them. Free-thinking is allowed but no disrespect. Tenks and Gobblezz In this post, I’ll be highlighting and discussing a few problems I have with “Christianity”. I’ll try to give supporting verses and proper facts to backup, just so I don’t confuse you. For context, I grew up in a Ch ..read more

Let me begin by saying, Feminism is and can be so many things to different people. Feminism is defined in different ways by different people but under the same premise “equality of sexes”. Feminism isn’t a man-hating movement. No one feminist is the same as another. Feminists can be different things; a feminist can be a lesbian, gay, straight, transexual, married, single, religious, atheist and every other thing a human wants to be. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines feminism as: “1. The theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes. 2. Organized activity on behalf of ..read more

You’re probably reading this because you’re a single pringle and you need company. Fear not, I’m here to save you My lucky guess is, at some point you’ve always wondered where to meet “the One”. I’ve come to realise that as you grow older with more responsibilities and a job taking up most of your time, You’d hardly have any time to devote into actively seeking a significant other. It takes some time before it really dawns on you that you need a partner. For some, it’s when your parents start screaming in your ears that they need grandkids . This list is also for you if you’re the type that g ..read more

I haven’t been able to wrap my head around this. I’ve tried to figure it out, it’s one of the many questions I’d need God to answer when we meet. A school of thought opines that our soul leaves our body and wanders. I’d love to agree but what then happens to people like myself that see ourselves in our favourite cartoons or movies? Does this mean my soul went to chill with the Powerpuff girls a couple of times when I was younger? There’s another school of thought that thinks your brain slips into a mode where it replays past events that’d come to you as dreams. Like a sort of simulation that ..read more

“Beauty is in the eyes of the Beholder” Not only is it true, but it is also a pointer to the fact that it doesn’t matter what you do or how much you try to make yourself attractive, you won’t check everyone’s list. Man has always had standards for beauty since time immemorial. For a lot of people, there are specific standards that must be met for them to deem you attractive. In the Western part of the world, being white-skinned, skinny, tall, having long legs, a rounded arse, big breasts, defined jawline, pointed nose, full lips are standards by which beauty is measured. These standards a ..read more

Nothing prepares you for that period in your life, when you finally clock 18. It’s the age every little child looks forward to. At least I did and I believe you did too. I wish someone warned us. Not like there’s a button that you could flip on and off to stop the aging process. However it would have stopped us from pining after ‘becoming an adult’. From the Age 18, the realities of life begin to hit you in the face like a brick. You want to be in a ‘serious’ relationship but you are broke I mean… Everyone wants to be spoilt with gifts, taken out and enjoy what life has to offer with their pa ..read more

It was a cold afternoon. one of those where the sun allowed the skies to weep. Vera’s mom had gone to work, leaving alone with her cousin. As she finished up her lunch and walked back to the kitchen to drop the plate. She felt her the hairs on her neck stand. “Why does she always stare at me like that?” She thought to herself. Vera had seen her cousin watch porn a few times. She had gotten used to walking in on her with her hand down her panties. She’d always thought it was an adult thing. That however didn’t explain the lustful stares she always got from her. It made her uneasy. She turned to ..read more

His hands behind his back Knees on his neck Bullets tearing into his skin Hands around his neck Screaming for help Skin tearing into asphalt There he dies, The black man. Being a woman is torture Being a black woman is hell. Rape, molestation, subjugation Just appetizers to complement her. Her voluptuous body is fetishized She’s the chick to the Hawk, Just waiting around for the next one to devour. WhYTe men drool as they set eyes on her Only melanin would quench this thirst She cries for help But… No one hears her. The “Chimp boy” The “sponge haired” girl Pushed into a corner Only to come out ..read more

His hands behind his back Knees on his neck Bullets tearing into his skin Hands around his neck Screaming for help Skin tearing into asphalt There he dies, The black man. Being a woman is torture Being a black woman is hell. Rape, molestation, subjugation Just appetizers to complement her. Her voluptuous body is fetishized She’s the chick to the Hawk, Just waiting around for the next one to devour. WhYTe men drool as they set eyes on her Only melanin would quench this thirst She cries for help But… No one hears her. The “Chimp boy” The “sponge haired” girl Pushed into a corner Only to come out ..read more

So, are you really in love or it’s just Love’s evil twin “Lust” that’s messing with your head. Many times, We get confused. We mix these two guys, it doesn’t help that they are so identical and that’s why I called them twins. A lot of people who think they are in love are just blinded by lust. That’s why I don’t quite agree with the saying that “Love is blind”. Love isn’t blind! Lust is the culprit here. Before we dive in… Disclaimer: I’m no relationship expert, I could tell you a thing or two but they aren’t foolproof. Ahem… so What is Lust? Lust is just an intense desire to have someth ..read more