Photo by Juliette F on Unsplash Love is not a temporary feeling or emotion. It’s safe to say emotions and feelings change, sometimes daily but true unconditional love is everlasting. Right? I find myself to be unconventional when it comes on to love and relationships. Why you might ask? Every few months, I find that I may want different ‘things’, and then it gets complicated when I find it hard to establish if all the ‘things’ I want, align with a single person. Is it just me or is that normal? I’ve been pondering on this for some time now and have asked myself, many a time, if there’s that o ..read more

Photo by Gabe Pierce on Unsplash Setting your goals for the year is the easy bit, but sticking to them and working at them, and eventually achieving them is the hard part. As the year has just begun, most people are probably feeling very motivated and finding it easy to stick to their new plans. However, it is very early days and if you want to continue this way then there are going to be some challenges in the way so you’ll likely need some extra tips on how to achieve your fitness goals this year. Remember Why Make Sure Your Goaals Align - If your goal is to run a marathon but you’re sp ..read more

Photo by Stephen Phillips - Hostreviews.co.uk on Unsplash Sliding into someone’s DMs might seem like a high-risk, low-reward endeavor. But if you follow the guidelines, you’d be surprised how much success you can have by simply not being an aggressive creep.  What’s the worst that can happen? You get ghosted—a small price to pay in comparison to unlimited romantic potential. It seems like everything in our lives is connected to the Internet somehow, both for the better and the worse. While tech makes our lives more convenient, we're so connected to our devices that seemingly normal face ..read more

Photo by __ drz __ on Unsplash By definition, the butterfly effect is the idea that small things can have non-linear impacts on a complex system. The concept is imagined with a butterfly flapping its wings and causing a typhoon. Where the hell am I going with this? I literally had the idea in my head and being very on brand for me - I started thinking about so many other things that my mind went all over the place and I lost the point. It took me a couple hours legit to get back here … LOVE, sex and desire. Why does falling in love give you the butterflies? Is it okay to just let go and allow ..read more

Photo by Gabe Pierce on Unsplash Setting your goals for the year is the easy bit, but sticking to them and working at them, and eventually achieving them is the hard part. As the year has just begun, most people are probably feeling very motivated and finding it easy to stick to their new plans. However, it is very early days and if you want to continue this way then there are going to be some challenges in the way so you’ll likely need some extra tips on how to achieve your fitness goals this year. Remember Why Make Sure Your Goaals Align - If your goal is to run a marathon but you’re sp ..read more

Photo by Thought Catalog on Unsplash I watched a documentary “The Legend of the Underground” and it captures queer Nigerian activists as they discuss their country’s laws criminalizing gay sex. Together, they lament unjust arrests and police brutality. They even went on to talk about the treatment from their own family members and it really had me thinking. Why exactly do people have issues with the way other people live their lives if they are not being hurt by it. When you think about it life is full of great wonders: commensurate in its love and cruelty. Sometimes you wonder how people ca ..read more

Photo by Gemma | That's Her Business on Unsplash Everyone’s memory goes on the crispier side every now and again. We often end up asking ourselves questions like, “where did I put those keys?”, “what was I saying again?”, “remind me what day it is”. Many a time, these lapses can be blamed on normal, fleeting problems like inattention or an overly busy day. There are more concerning types of memory issues, however, which is why it’s worth doing everything in your power to minimize the odds of them happening. “Memory is just a tiny part of brain functioning, and there’s a lot you can do to prot ..read more

“The HustleFit Sustainable Fat Loss Method” breaks down 3 of the MOST important pillars of shedding body fat, building lean muscle/toning up, and staying consistent even with a hectic schedule. It is a program for some busy, time-strapped people that are still wanting to tone up, get healthier & prioritize their fitness even around their crazy schedule! A take away for me from this showing that I can eat favorite foods & still lose weight? How? Having to understand how many calories you need to be eating to drop body fat, understanding how many calories are in your favorite / frequen ..read more

Photo from www.meme-arsenal.com Tell me what you want (how you want it?) Ass up and face down (with the loving) Baby let me know (when you need it) Four-course meal, chopped down (when you eat it) Make me curl my toes (toes) What's the quickest way to turn you on? Morning, middle of the night Tell me what you want… Lyrics from ‘Morning’ by Teyana Taylor ft. Kehlani From the role of porn and the strength of libido (I still find this word extremely hilarious) to the importance of physical attractiveness and the desire to chase, popular culture paints a picture that doesn't always match the re ..read more

When I made the pronouncement to unapologetically say that anyone I form a long-lasting bond with, especially in the realm of a relationship, has to be black, people were looking at me crazy. Whilst I don’t owe anyone an explanation, I feel the need to detail my thoughts on the matter. My entire life, I have been content with the notion that my life partner would be another black person. It’s not because I am incapable of forming relationships or seeing the beauty in different races or ethnicities, but there has always been one similarity that must exist between myself and anyone I plan to pu ..read more