It's holy week, we are reminiscing on fasting and riding with King Jesus, and we are getting into the mess of DL discourse. Robert talks about his time on clubhouse which prompted the long-awaited conversation on downlow men. Khadieme and Robert take on, put up and put down a politic that expands the definition of DL beyond media, discusses how we can hold a care politic in accountability for harm, and examines how we shift language to make room for some nuance. We put up, we put down, we look, we examine the messiness that is the downlow.  ..read more

are you paying attention to the sensations in your body? join robert and khadieme as they discuss discovering their blackness, the influence of Caribbean identity, and a regularly scheduled inquiry into ADOS ..read more

We reach again! Season 4 is here chile. this episode starts with [insert messy comment] and ends on [insert sweet note]. Robert says the first episode of the season sets the tone and khadieme says it's a season of vulnerability. stick around to see which one it is? Stacey-Ann Chin's performance of "Not my President ..read more

sorrel wars are done, but robert wants to start the black cake battles. tune in as khadieme and robert give caribbean men in wigs a long overdue reading, reflect on being home during the holidays, and look ahead to 2021.  big big announcement: join our queer caribbean whatsapp group chat: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KOzrZ6nc7TXLqBCVwovR4U Sup'm Fi Nyam material: Out and Bad by Nadia Ellis  Content warning: mentions of domestic violence at 47:00 NYC 24-Hour Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-621-HOPE ..read more

tabloids, transitions, thanksgiving. get into the mix up as Robert and Khadieme sits in their intimate space to discuss the elections, undertaking the journey of uncaging themselves, and the intensity they're both creating on this year's thanksgiving. Robert has a surprise giveaway, and Khadieme encourages folks who want access to food to reach out to them ..read more

A dose of loving-kindness, a hookup for roast breadfruit, and some tips n’ tricks to get you through this week’s episode of a Global Pandemic: Election Edition. Tune in to hear Khadieme and Robert look back to 2016 to forecast an end for the 2020 elections, sing praises to the McBride sisters (again!), and discover the space between the mattress & the box spring ..read more

Robert gets a new micrphone and Khadieme mishaps on "maricones," but more than that, more mix up on latinidad, story telling and some oral historian work. join us as we speak with cultural anthropology PhD student and oral historian Andrew Viñales on intimacy, learning from our elders as we become them, and "the look."   "Varones in the Archive: A Queer Oral History Analysis with Two Black Puerto Rican Gay Men" by Andrew Viñales https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_K8VdT8FagI1f9yvk-85jKd6eK-iYPxP/view?usp=sharing  ..read more

Black people just need likkle space fi rest wi front. join us as we discuss giving ourselves grace, growing up in the darkness and moremix up with activist, organizer and Afro-Caribbean goodaz gyal Nala Simone Toussaint.  To learn more about Nala's work, visit https://nalatoussaint.com ..read more

it’s the fires in California for me... it’s the mass hysterectomies in ICE concentration camps for me ... the united states continues to be trash! the call for a bonded, ethical solidarity is ever clear. what is the caribbean connection? what are we going to do about it ..read more

triple threat: labour day, queer caribbeans of nyc day, and the stush an' bush season 3 premiere! we're starting this episode with official carnival business, a ghetto ass recap of miss rona's activities, and essential parkway hits ..read more