Feeling lost in the shuffle? Do the days seem to blur into weeks, the weeks into months, and the months into years? Does time feel like it’s slipping away from you, and with every passing day, you feel increasingly lost?  At the same time, does common societal wisdom not seem to apply to you? Perhaps you’ve been told to follow the well-trodden path to keep you safe, but this leaves you feeling empty.  You’re constantly searching for something that moves you, but you can’t find it. You wake up every day and wonder why you aren’t happy. You secretly fear that you’ll never find you ..read more

We all want to feel secure in our relationships. We all want to be with someone we can trust. We’re all searching for that foundation, that bedrock, that’ll provide us with stability, comfort, and happiness. But sometimes, we end up in situations that rock those foundations, like being involved with a woman who has close relationships with other men. Most guys have been in this exact situation at least once in their life. They start seeing a girl and find out she’s good friends with several guys, or even more intensely for the man; her best friend is male. These situations leave guys feeling j ..read more

In modern dating, the distinction between chasing and pursuing a woman is a subtle yet crucial one. Consider the following: A large number of men feel uncertain about the right way to approach women, often blurring the lines between pursuit and chase. Many relationships falter due to misunderstandings about intentions and methods of approach. A significant portion of dating advice emphasizes the importance of confidence and self-assuredness, contrasting sharply with behaviors marked by desperation and insecurity. Surveys suggest that women tend to find confidence and self-assuredness attracti ..read more

For most men, frame control is a confusing topic; it’s too complicated. They give up on trying to understand frames, and on trying to control balance and respect in their relationships. They give up on trying to understand the women they are pursuing and start to blame everyone and everything but themselves for their relationship woes. That’s because most people don’t explain frame control in a simple and digestible manner. Most dating coaches make this simple idea of establishing boundaries and being specific about what you want extremely complicated. They’re almost elitist about it. They mak ..read more

In modern society, few words are as controversial as “masculinity.” Today, men across the world are struggling to find their masculine identity amid a society that tells them to suppress their masculine instincts. Navigating the complexities of being a man in today’s fast-paced and constantly changing society can be challenging. These challenges can be even more nuanced for men who find themselves in leadership roles or strive to inhabit one.  How can one be a masculine leader when just being a man is so challenging? Today, I will answer that question as I guide you down the path to embra ..read more

Most men nowadays are dim shadows of what they could be. Struggling to find purpose in a convenience-driven world and afraid of stepping on society’s increasingly sensitive toes, men are quickly forgetting how to be men. Assertion has given way to passivity, confidence to shame, and the pillars that once held up healthy masculinity are beginning to crumble. They leave in their wake a deadly catastrophe. Because the truth is…a world without men – true men – will cease to exist. A world without true men is a world without strong fathers, loyal husbands, and leaders to reinforce society and guide ..read more

For many men, divorce is the single most emotional experience of their lives. A mix of anger, sadness, confusion, betrayal, and loss can leave a man feeling vulnerable, isolated, and overwhelmed.  Societal expectations can make it difficult for a man to process his emotions, leading to further feelings of isolation. It isn’t uncommon for a recently divorced man to experience a wide range of emotions, from relief to anger to grief — all within a single day.  If your divorce has you feeling like you’re about to lose your sanity, take a deep breath. Understand that you are not the first ..read more

You’ve probably heard of “monk mode” before, but you also probably don’t know how it can help you become the kind of man that you’ve always wanted to be. “Monk mode” is a trendy idea for increased productivity, more effective work, and improved mental health, but did you know that monk mode can also lead to better relationships, more direction in your life, and greater personal satisfaction? For a lot of men looking to take their lives to the next step, monk mode might be the answer. But how do you do it? How do you actually embrace a “monk-mode lifestyle”? You understand the value of shutting ..read more

Few things in life can be as debilitating as a divorce. At the same time, divorce can also be an incredibly liberating experience. Even more fascinating is the fact that it can be both these things at the same time.  If you’ve just gotten divorced, you may feel a mix of anger, sadness, regret, relief, hope, and excitement for the future.  Of course, this is only natural. Most rational people do not get married with the belief that their marriage will fail. (Some do, but that’s another issue entirely.)  If you’ve been blindsided by your loving relationship disintegrating right be ..read more

Charlie Munger is the vice-chairman of Berkshire Hathaway and a long-time collaborator with Warren Buffett. His journey is marked by exceptional intellect and unwavering discipline and offers invaluable lessons for men aspiring to strengthen their foundations and lead more purposeful lives. Munger’s unique experiences, from overcoming personal adversity to making strategic, long-term investment decisions, provide a roadmap for cultivating a strong, grounded character. His emphasis on continuous learning, ethical living, and the importance of understanding one’s own limitations resonates deepl ..read more