What if I have no clue who I am?
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
3d ago
Have you ever been told to reconnect with who you were, but really have no clue who that is? Some people started their life in a toxic or dysfunctional environment and have no healthy self to reconnect with. What do you do then?  There are steps to defining or redefining yourself. I talk about them in this episode.  ..read more
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When family believes they know what's best for you
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
1w ago
As an adult, you've learned to take care of yourself. You believe you are making the right decisions and following the best steps you can to find happiness. But then there's family. Some family can believe you're doing the wrong thing and want you to follow their way and their path. If you don't want what they want, it can cause a big issue.  ..read more
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When all feels lost and you believe nothing will ever be good again
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
2w ago
Experiences of loss, such as a breakup and losing your job can have a profound emotional impact on you. In fact, it can feel devastating. Afterward, a childlike confusion can follow. Will the pain, sadness, or confusion ever end? Is there a path forward? If you can get out of the rut, yes there is. But it takes a perceptual shift you may not have while you're down and out ..read more
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Trying to avoid overwhelm and disappointment while moving toward your goal
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
3w ago
Going for goals can be, well, disappointing. Trying to get something done might give you feelings of failure when you don't get it done. Are you a goal setter or do you wing it? I hate goal-setting myself. I'll share some of my thoughts on this to help you avoid disappointment after disappointment.  ..read more
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The inner conflict of tough decisions
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
1M ago
What drives the important decisions in your life, fear or desire? In this episode I talk about a person's fear of visiting his father because of family that doesn't want him there. I also talk about how to start trusting again after someone betrays you... is there a path to wholeness after such an event?  ..read more
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Can a chronic complainer ever be content?
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
1M ago
There's a fine line between real suffering versus just getting stuck in a cycle of feeling sorry for yourself. The chronic complainer's suffering is real, but is it self-inflicted? Do they really want to change? And do some people benefit from expressing their pain and suffering?  There's no victim-blaming here. I'm just exploring a subject many of us might run into.          ..read more
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Stuck in the middle of someone else's relationship issues
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
1M ago
Trying to encourage a friend in a relationship to see the truth about their toxic partner can come with its own set of challenges, especially when the friend doesn't want to hear it and the toxic person wants to shut you down.  ..read more
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When the new person in your life still has feelings for their ex
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
1M ago
What happens when you fall for someone who might still have feelings for the person they were with? Is it a relationship that can survive? Or will the fear of them returning to the person they cared about before you be too much for you to keep it going?  ..read more
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How do I deal with someone always putting me down?
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
2M ago
When someone constantly puts you down, it’s not just hurtful; it’s destructive. I’ll share some personal strategies that could help you navigate these rough waters, aiming to keep your self-esteem intact ..read more
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The quirks that might make others judge us
The Overwhelmed Brain
by Paul Colaianni
2M ago
A "germaphobe" shares their challenge at a work function with food being the catalyst for an embarrassing moment that ended up in tears. When you have behaviors and nuances that others might judge you for, do you hide them from the world? Should you? That's a great topic to talk about ..read more
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