Hey there, your prodigal writer is back! Are you ready to embark on a journey towards achieving work-life bliss in this crazy modern world? Well, you’ve come to the right place! Join me as we navigate the twists and turns of harmonizing our work and personal lives, all while maintaining our sanity and sense of humour. Before everything else, let’s set the record straight: I’m no expert when it comes to having a perfectly balanced life. If you’ve been a loyal visitor to my blog, you might have noticed my absence for over a year, without a single post to share. It wasn’t because I had nothing to ..read more

Story story Once upon a time, there lived a very handsome yet very disobedient child. What do you think his name was? Who can guess? Let me provide a clue, his name can be found in DISOBEDIENT. OBED, yes that was his name. One day, Obed's mum had an ugly fight with her neighbor. Threats were issued, curses were ruined, seeds of enmity were sown. The first thing Obed's mum told Obed after the fight was, if you don't know and I see you playing with our neighbor’s son, I will beat you to a pulp. Who knows, that evil witch and her son will kill you before I get the chance to beat you. This warnin ..read more

Hello, it's been a long while and here I am not with a good news but finding a way to ruin your Cinderella perfect endings. Let's go with the flow anyway, is that okay? *********** Everything had been in total chaos on date rush reunion that evening. Date rush is a dating show which provides opportunity for singles to mingle on tv3 network. On that particular night there were lots of regrets from both ladies and gentlemen on their choices of dates. Insults and accusations were flying left right center. Amidst the mayhem came a beautiful scene. Success, one of the date rushers, found out a few ..read more

When it comes to forgiving others for the wrong they have done to you, it’s easier said than done. My need to steer clear of the topic is deep because everything I share with you my cherished readers, comes back staring at me when I decide to do otherwise. I keep hearing tiny voices in my head, practice what you preach. This page is like a mini conscience to me you know, and I hope it is to you too. By now I’ve painted myself as a vengeful Tom and Jerry but no I’m not vengeful, at least not entirely. There are things I forgive easily and perhaps one or two things I’m still struggling to forgiv ..read more

If I were still in high school, I’d begin this letter by saying, “the brightness of the sun has given me the warmth to write you this letter”. Well I have grown beyond that so let’s start with my vows to you ..read more

How are my lovely readers doing? I’ve missed yu you all. It’s about time I tell you what kept me away all these months. Last year January I got a job I can only describe as toxic. Right from the working environment down to the very core of the business itself was toxic. Negative energy enclosed the area and just as lock down kept us trapped in our own homes (at least for safety reasons) I was trapped in my own body for financial reasons. My loved ones did not feel my absence physically as I was far from home, but also emotionally. I was nothing you would want to surround yourself with. I simpl ..read more

Who are you? My name is……(I got interrupted) No, I know your name. I mean who are you? He asked me. Now that’s a difficult one, I said. I thought I knew who I was. I thought I stood for something, my fears both reasonable and unreasonable, I did know them all. My strengths as well as those damn weaknesses that remind me I’m human and not a perfectly built robot, my daily life reminds me of it all. At least they did months ago, or perhaps years ago. I have lost track of time. I DON’T KNOW ANYMORE . It’s a big world with so much responsibilities, and you may get lost putting pressure on ourselv ..read more

Judith, trust me when I say you are a great friend. Your confidence in my writing will forever be appreciated. Thanks so much for nominating me for the Liebster award. You can't read Judith's blog without being encouraged and geared enough towards a happy and a self-fulfilling life. It's a blog everyone should visit, www.truselph.wordpress.com Rules of the award: • Thank the blogger who nominated you, and provide a link to their blog • Answer the 11 questions given to you • Nominate 11 other bloggers • Ask your nominees 11 questions • Notify your nominees once you have uploaded your post My a ..read more

Let me tell you a little more about my crushes, by way of introducing my guest writer for today. Every series I watch I grab a crush or two for myself. With Magnus Bane and Alec of shadow hunters being my favorite of all time. I do have a thing for bald men too. Apart from those, got a thing for a particular tribe in Ghana, the fantes. Hamilton is a fante and by default should fall in this category. However he has managed to “MAX” himself out of it. That means he can be pretty annoying yet loving. Today's post was birthed from one of our few conversations. Enjoy and I hope you love Hamilton's ..read more

What's your impression growing up? Should boyfriends provide for their girlfriends financially or not? Do you believe in going Dutch? “Know this: It is your right to expect that a man will pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or whatever else he has to pay for in exchange for your time. You all have to stop this foolishness with the “I pay for my dinner, so he knows I don’t need him” approach” Steve Harvey Act like a lady, think like a man-First school of thoughts. Before you begin calling names, how about we try to comprehend where this might be co ..read more