This goes under the heading of "You did NOT just go THERE"... And there he went.   About two or so weeks into knowing one another... there was a pause one evening during our nightly marathon phone sessions... and I swore he wanted to say he loved me. I am talking about "Sir" from a few blogs ago.  We have really been hitting it off, talking a lot and spending a lot of time together.  I already met his mom! Fast forward to a few weeks later on a Saturday night, well Sunday 3 am but who's clock watching...  when I get up to go to sleep in the other room (Sir is an AWFUL loud SNORING machine ..read more

Why is it that my FWB waits for me to share things that I want to try and things that have happened to me before telling me he wants to do them to me? Going back to the infamous Black Friday weekend... when I told him about things on my bucket list such as a threesome with 2 guys and me as well as anal sex, I found out he wanted to do them with me as well.  It just "had not come up" was his answer.  Mind you the anal sex was amazing as another blog spoke about, but still....  Why wait for me to bring it up? Fast forward to this past weekend when I told him about an experience I had from par ..read more

Up until this past year, I had never heard the term "squirting".  Once I learned what it was, I thought that it was literally a "fountain" of liquid like would come from squirting something out of a bottle or a stream of something.  Yes, it can be that but it can simply be a rush of liquid and wetness creating a puddle.  No arched stream necessary. Can I just say OMG - so THIS is what all the fuss is about.  NOW I know WHY men want to make a woman "squirt".  Now I know what I want to squirt. In case YOU do not know - let me give you a definition by sharing from an article from Healthline, en ..read more

It is either Feast or Famine....   I am either being cancelled on, ghosted or I have too many toys or pieces of meat, er I mean men or boys...vying for my attention.   I have 1 that I met at a party and I apparently have been on his mind a lot.  He wants to be with me and see me at any juncture.  I am going to call him "Sir" for now as I am sure there will be more to write about him.   I have another that when he found out about being cancelled on 2 Wed in a row - said he would never do that.  We have a date on Friday.  He he already smitten and has not met me. I warn them not to get attache ..read more

I  have been awol for many reasons and I apologize for the long break I took.  Between end of the year, my son, getting the flu,etc...   I am back. Its no wonder I prefer the fet fun over the dating world.   Being cancelled on sucks!  Yet again another back to back Wed cancellation.  Similar to a few mos ago where one week it is work and the next week it is their daughter. Pretty sure I am way too skeptical as I do not believe what he said.  Even if it were true, I am not ok with it despite the fact that he supposedly is putting his daughter first.  Problem is that why did he not see her last ..read more

Have you ever learned things that have a profound impact on your life?  That happened to me this past weekend as I learned some things about people I have known for a considerable amount of time.  Life altering information... not for them but for me.  The fact that this has been hidden from me for so long was irrelevant... what was profound is that this information has helped me to make some important decisions about me and my life. I have been dating since August 16 and I have had an immense amount of fun.  I was thinking I was done and I should reduce the amount of "hoeness" (my own new wor ..read more

One surefire way to get yourself blocked is to spout off in a text about how you would not live up to my standards and my "big fancy degree".  WTF!  Did I ever mention that I am better than you because I own my own business? NO!  Have a masters degree? No!  Own my own house? No! I never once degraded you or made you feel less than me - and we had not even met.  YOU were the one who said these things and said would you even date someone with a learning disability plus you said you had one friend.  WOW! Go get some self confidence and good luck out there.  I am thankful I found out before we ..read more

Last night I made Lemonade out of Lemons...   Sugarfree at that*!  I had a first date scheduled and apparently I was stood up.  The good part of it was that I had not even left my house yet... the bad part is that he owned a boat and I was really hoping to get to know him and get a few dates out of it!  I blocked him so that is not happening. I had been face timing with him and chatting/texting with him a few times over the past few days.  All was good... or so I thought.  We spoke around 5 and he was starting to work on something for his boat...  I had told him I could meet him around 7:30 h ..read more

I have not written in a while as I have been busy with my child...   not to much happening on the dating front, except for this: The guy I had met and been with the night after we had a 2 hr meeting/date at a park... I felt he was not really into me since he had been sick. I called him on it and questioned if he was still interested.  It was all I could do to keep from laughing louder than the chuckle I did... he blamed me for getting him sick.  He blamed us "fooling around" for him getting sick! BAHAHAHAAHA He works in a "hospital" and he "never" gets sick.  Soooo funny!  I was not sick.  I ..read more

I am NOT your baby or your sweetie or your boo.  On one of the sites I chatted with one of the guys asked for my cell. He wanted to text.  That is cool.  He called (did not text) but the first thing he said was "Hey baby, how are you doing?" and I retorted with a laugh, "I am not your baby."  Click.  He hung up! LOL    Men or rather boys in this case, do not like being told to not call us baby or boo or sweetie or dear (that is the worst).  I quickly blocked him.  Until you know me and until we are something, I am NOT your baby!  Next ..read more