Deep dive into shallow prayers.
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by Tony
4d ago
Teresa and I took a road trip to Greenville, Texas, this past week. We stayed with some friends whose home was almost dead center in the path of the solar eclipse – over four minutes of totality. Before you roll your eyes and heap scorn on me (I’m impervious, so save your breath), understand that this was a bucket list event for me. I’ve seen plenty of partial eclipses, and my takeaway was “wow, that’s cool,” and I’d get on with my day. But after hearing my son attempt to explain what a total eclipse was like, I resolved that I simply had to witness this, because, as they say, pictures don’t d ..read more
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Being Alone vs. Being Lonely.
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by Tony
1w ago
We were in Laurel last week, visiting with the grandkids, Katherine and Levi, and their expendable parents. (If you’re a grandparent, I don’t need to explain. Katherine and Levi’s parents just tend to get in the way of our fun.) Katherine and Levi would rather eat at Waffle House than any other restaurant in the Western Hemisphere. I get that. It’s one of our all-time guilty pleasures. Waffle House is one of the great levelers of society — where else will you see neurosurgeons and sod layers eating together and know that everyone will be treated the same? Scattered, smothered, and covered — th ..read more
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Bad news.
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by Tony
2w ago
After Daddy died, I had another 12 years with my mamma. Even though I didn’t live close, we kept up with each other, and I’d make it home when I could. One thing that bugged me, though, is that anytime I was at her house, the television would be tuned to one of the 24-hour news channels. Maybe Fox, maybe CNN, but always something. Mamma would comment on what she’d seen and heard. Mamma was a rock-solid Christian, a strong woman, but I could tell that a lot of what she was seeing was scaring her. She was genuinely afraid of what was happening in the world. I said, “Mamma, don’t be watching this ..read more
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Trusting God when He is silent.
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by Tony
3w ago
Scoot your chairs in close, kids. I have a story for you. This will help someone. Several years ago I was working for a ministry that trained and equipped student ministers. It was a dream job in so many ways. I’ll spare you the details, but I went through an awful season while serving in that role. Compounding it was a knowledge that I needed some answers from God Himself — it was one of those “crisis of belief” times that Henry Blackaby so eloquently talked about in “Experiencing God.” So I prayed, and sought, and waited. Nothing, Nada. Ultimately, I did hear from God in what was a solid, sw ..read more
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Bullying is never okay.
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by Tony
1M ago
This week, I want to dive into a memory lane moment that’s been tugging at my heartstrings, all centered around a term we’re all too familiar with — bullying. But, I’m not just talking about the kind we remember from the playground; I’m eyeing its more grown-up, yet equally damaging counterpart in our adult lives. This grows from an incident I saw in the news that can only be classified as bullying, and it involves public figures, grown men. Frankly, it’s troubled me perhaps more than it should have. Let me tell you a story. There are some real parallels here. My thoughts drift back to a child ..read more
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You can’t be a cynic and a Christian.
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by Tony
1M ago
I should know better when on social media. I’ll read a post from someone I know and care for, and think, “Are you even listening to yourself? You’re a believer. And if I were to take what you’re sharing at face value, I’d say you’re moving close to despair. How cynical can you get?”   It’s like a drowning man who not only won’t reach for a lifesaver but isn’t content until they drown someone else along with them. In a world that often seems overwhelmed by negativity and cynicism, it’s easy to wonder where we, as Christians, fit into the grand scheme of things. We’re bombarded with ne ..read more
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Be rational. Be reasonable. Fear not.
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by Tony
1M ago
Some of you folks might remember the Y2K frenzy and all the hysteria that came with it. The world was on the edge of its seat, prepping for a technological apocalypse. Churches held seminars, and many of my friends filled their garages with enough emergency supplies to last a lifetime. In the midst of that chaos, I found myself trying hard not to be disrespectful to their concerns, yet I couldn’t help but feel skeptical. My skepticism wasn’t born out of a claim to superior knowledge or insight. Rather, the situation simply didn’t make reasonable sense to me. Between the conflicting “expert” op ..read more
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Get up, and do the next thing.
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by Tony
1M ago
I thought of a name for my autobiography, if I ever decide to write it: Well, That Didn’t Work. My life is full of things that didn’t go the way I’d wanted or planned. Some incidents I’d drop in that file marked “It’s Just a Thing.” Another file would be marked, “What Were You Thinking?” And, unfortunately, one file would be marked “You Blew It.” That third file would be full of unpleasant accounts. I’m prone to be unduly hard on myself. Can I get an “amen?” I’m learning, though, that all my past mistakes, those moments of weakness, are redeemable. Check this out. The scene is the Garden ..read more
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What do you do when God doesn’t fix things?
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by Tony
2M ago
0 shares Tweet Pin Print Friendly Version What do you do when God doesn’t fix things? If you’re a believer, does that fit into your worldview? There are lots of things I wasn’t aware of when I became a Christian. My faith was shallow, because I was just a baby in the faith. I didn’t know there were times when God doesn’t fix things. I thought if I prayed just the right kind of prayers and believed, then everything would go my way. No. It doesn’t work that way. Right? I made the comment the other day that the natural state of the Christian was suffering. (That statement is a great platform ..read more
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Fighting for your beliefs without demonizing each other.
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by Tony
2M ago
We can fight for our beliefs without demonizing each other. Not everyone knows this, apparently. I have a love/hate relationship with social media. I love being able to reconnect with friends that I haven’t heard from in years. It’s pretty wonderful to find a former student from one of the youth groups I led 30 years ago and hear how they’re doing Kingdom work and loving Jesus. That’s the love side of things. What I hate, though, is when I run across some political or social screed and just shake my head. Or, worse, when I let myself get suckered and drawn into a no-win discussion, i.e., argum ..read more
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