How do Narcissists Learn How to Manipulate People
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
3M ago
Have you ever wondered how narcissists become so good at manipulating people and how they learn it? Why do most, if not all narcissists use the same manipulative tactics such as gaslighting, lovebombing, and silent treatment as if they all went to the same school to learn these tactics? In this article I will tell you how narcissists become so good at manipulating people and how they develop their manipulative tactics. Being raised in a reward-punishment environment Most parents and teachers usually try to motivate children using reward-punishment techniques. If the child behaves well they’re ..read more
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Why do Narcissist Accuse You of Cheating
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
9M ago
I’m not going to talk about a case where your narcissistic partner starts accusing you of cheating right after seeing signs that you might be cheating such as going through your phone and finding that some men/women have been flirting with you. In that case even if they may be wrong there’s usually no other reason behind the accusations other than the false signs they saw. However, some narcissists seem to always suspect their partner of cheating without any solid evidence. Their accusations are usually based on zero evidence or trivial evidence such as when their partner comes home late. When ..read more
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How to Take Control Away From a Narcissist
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
11M ago
Are you in a relationship with a narcissist who is a control freak? Are you tired of being controlled? Control freak narcissists not only hate to lose control but they also hate to see others in control. What this means is that taking control away from a narcissist is not an easy task. However, by arming yourself with the right knowledge you can take control away from a narcissist or at least stop them from controlling you. How to take control away from a narcissist Below are 6 ways to take control away from a narcissist without putting yourself into unnecessary fights and drama with them. Be ..read more
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What Happens When a Narcissist Knows You Love Him
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
Are you interested in a narcissist and wondering how he will feel and react once he knows that you love him? In this article, you will learn what to expect when you express your love and romantic interest in a narcissist. I will also tell you why the way you express your interest in him can greatly affect how he will feel about you. When a narcissist knows that you love him, the first thing that will happen is that he will quickly evaluate you based on things such as your looks, popularity, status, and assign you a certain worth. Note that the worth that the narcissist will assign you is total ..read more
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How to Know If a Narcissist is Using You
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
Are you wondering if your narcissistic partner truly loves you or if they are just using you? Do you suspect that they might be faking love just to get something from you such as sex or money? You can easily tell if a narcissist is using you or not by analyzing their behavior and personality. In this article, you will learn the signs to look for to know if a narcissist is using you or not. How to know if a narcissist is using you by understanding what they need The best way to know if a narcissist is using you or not is to understand what they need the most in that moment of their life. Are th ..read more
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When a Narcissist Discards You, Do This
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
What most people do when they get discarded by a narcissist is that they start to look for a reason why they got discarded. They start to look for what their narcissistic partner might have disliked about them. Most of the time, this results in actually finding something wrong about themselves and assume that it’s the reason why they got discarded. Of course, there’s always a cause of the discard but most of the time it’s not about the narcissist finding something wrong about you. The reason why the discard hurts so much is mainly because of the false conclusion people make afterwards. For exa ..read more
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What Words Can Destroy A Narcissist
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
Before I explain what words can destroy a narcissist, I want to make it clear that this article is not meant to teach you how to destroy a narcissist with words. This is because it’s not only unhelpful but it can also cause a lot of violent reactions from the narcissist. Instead this article will teach you words that destroy a narcissist so that you know how to use words correctly when dealing with a narcissist. Below are the words that can destroy a narcissist. Shame on you No, I’m not talking about the word “shame on you” itself. The word itself may mean nothing to a narcissist depending on ..read more
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Narcissistic Smear Campaign – Why Do They Have To Ruin Your Reputation
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
In simple words, a smear campaign is a malicious manipulation tactic that involves ruining someone’s reputation by spreading false, misleading information about them, and gossiping about them in a way that makes other people dislike them. While not all narcissists do smear campaigns, those who do it usually have a strong conscious or subconscious goal they want to achieve. So, what makes narcissists so motivated to spread false information about you? What’s the logical reason behind the smear campaign and how does it benefit them? Below are the reasons why narcissists use smear campaigns again ..read more
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How to Make a Narcissist Feel Guilty
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
Can a narcissist feel guilty? Is it possible to make a narcissist feel guilty? Before I answer these questions let me first explain why narcissists don’t feel guilty when they abuse their loved ones. Contrary to popular beliefs, narcissists are actually capable of feeling guilt and empathy under certain circumstances. The reason why narcissists don’t seem to feel guilty when they abuse their others is because their ego defense mechanism is usually active at that moment. An ego defense mechanism is an unconscious process the mind uses to prevent a person from experiencing bad emotions such as g ..read more
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Is Ignoring a Narcissist Who Ignores You a Good Idea?
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by Pacifique N. Daxton
1y ago
Trying to get attention from a narcissist who is constantly ignoring you can be so frustrating especially if you don’t know why they are ignoring you. For this reason, most people usually decide to pull back and start ignoring the narcissist as well. Chasing someone who doesn’t care can badly damage your self-esteem if you made wrong assumptions on the reasons why they are ignoring you. Sometimes, when a person gets ignored or rejected, they usually assume that it’s because they are not interesting or good enough. Now, when this person gets multiple rejections constantly they may end with a ru ..read more
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