Knowing yourself in all situations helps you stay true to yourselfI have always been known to be a quiet person, often submissive not confrontational , slightly intelligent and not ambitious . How ever as different events happened in my life my whole personality changed. I am often seen as a strong black woman. I often take pride in this strength that is associated with me, its a word I would have never used to identify myself, yet frequently used together with black woman. I realised that most people don’t even know is that this strength is learned by most black woman as a result of survival ..read more

A soul mate is the one person whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soul to do the emotional work of self discovery, of awakening Kenny Loggins This particular post is very dear to me because it talks of a topic that caused a lot of confusion in my own personal life. It was very difficult for me to come up with an appropriate answer when my partner mentioned that I had changed and was not the same person I was when I met them. It caused such an emotional turmoil because the changes came very slowly and I was unaware of it happening until my partner mentioned it. I was an ..read more

Despite the fact that communication technology has advanced, communication skills have been on the decline in recent years because communication technology doesn’t equal communication skill. In fact, I believe that the English language is changing again and again, being diluted into meaningless and unfeeling words.  Words you never used to find in the dictionary, but where used as slang have now meandered there way into it. The art of wooing and eloquence is a thing of the past, no one ever considers being eloquent, in fact people will find you awkward and difficult to relate to. I have alway ..read more