Valentine’s Day is here, and all I want is for you to have an EPIC relationship. I know you want it too, because you’re here in my tribe, reading my blogs, watching my videos and saying, “WOW, this is on POINT!” I also know your search for solutions to get this dating thing right has left you frustrated,  jaded by dating apps and on the verge of getting another puppy to keep you company (can I keep it real?) You hold on to hope by telling yourself, “I know he’s out there.” Do I have permission to rock your world? He’s already here. He drank Starbucks coffee this morning. He listened to DJ Kha ..read more

You’re smart. You’re sexy. And you’re surviving all the drama that comes with searching for romance while juggling a successful life. Heck, you could be the lead character in Sex & The City or Being Mary Jane…because despite all you’ve tried, lasting love seems to be beyond your grasp. You’re what I call a 10% woman, a six-figure sister who is in the top 10% of female income earners in the world. Through drive and ambition, you’ve fought hard to earn the respect and admiration of your colleagues & community. You believe you can achieve anything you put your mind to, and your résumé and ..read more

R&B superstar Ciara ignited a Twitter firestorm when she retweeted a meme featuring a clip of Pastor John Gray’s 2016 message to single women about why marriage is elusive for them. In this message, he insinuated that if a man hasn’t put a ring on it yet, it’s because you’re walking in the “spirit of girlfriend,” instead of acting like a wife. He said: “Here’s what the scripture says. He that finds a wife finds a good thing. It didn’t say he that finds a woman that he’s attracted to, that he then begins to date, who he then calls a girlfriend, who he then buys a ring, proposes, and makes h ..read more

So you finally put yourself back out there. You mustered up the courage to swipe right on Tinder. And after a few text messages he asks the dreaded question: “So why is a woman like you still single?” You start typing a response but then freeze. You’ve been single a long time. You think to yourself, “If I tell him why I’m still single after all these years, he might think something’s wrong with me.” You end up ghosting him because you just didn’t know what to say. Until now. As a dating coach, I believe asking “why are you still single”  is an awkward question to start off a great date.  Obvio ..read more