“take your time, give yourself time” Everyone who has been through a break up must have heard this at one point. Yes, it’s a good advice, but I’m here to tell you not to let those words be the only words that guide you. There’s absolutely no time frame to get over any broken relationship. No time frame whatsoever needs to elapse before moving on. It could be few weeks, months, years. Yes, YEARS, it took me two whole years to get over one relationship one time. It has also taken me a shorter time to move on from another person, but one important point to note is, the duration does not mean I lo ..read more

There is a saying that ladies and money are two things that are inseparable, in the sense that ladies love money. Mostly yes, ladies will not agree to date a poor guy, rather they prefer following the rich ones even though they are younger than them. It is no doubt that ladies love money but nowadays, ladies don’t go into a relationship because of material things. I have seen many cases where rich ladies follow poor guy, it is because they don’t need their money but love and affection. Today, I will be sharing with you three things ladies of nowadays love apart from money. 1. True love It is a ..read more

A man who can do anything just to see a woman smiling is indeed a man and he will be loved and cherished by women. The heart of a woman is fragile and this makes it easy for guys who can show them love to easily have them. Even if she rejects you at first and you still didn’t give up, you will win her over easily if you show her true love. Men, there are some things you do that women love a lot, that’s why you need to know these things so you can keep your woman smiling all the rest of her life. Dear men, if you’re doing these things please continue, women love it. 1. A man who is active in a ..read more

WOMEN LIKE CONSISTENCY. Let me rephrase, women like consistency when it is pleasant. There is the popular local phrase that goes like this “no start wetin you no go fit finish”, and this is mostly important in how you deal with women. You had all the spare time in the world when you were wooing that woman. You called every day, you would even ask her “have you eaten” 700 times per week. As regular as that sounds, a woman who likes you sees that as “care” and “concern”. And one of the things she would worry about is if you can be consistent with that care and the concern. “no start wetin you no ..read more

If you must break up a relationship let it be for good and godly reasons. Jealousy, revenge, and carnality should not be part of it. It is also important that you’re clear about the status of the relationship. If the courtships over, make sure that the other person understands that you are not just putting it on hold. Assumptions are some of the greatest pitfalls in relationships.  WS is here to give you some suggestions on the right way to break up.   Seek counsel: if you have doubts concerning your decision to call it quits, please seek advice from someone you trust and truly respe ..read more

Why do you still stick around when you know that he is abusive, manipulative, lying, boring, insensitive and selfish? Why do you still choose him when you don’t even love him anymore? You still choose him because he chose you. That makes you feel better about yourself already. But if he’s not good enough, he’s not the best that you can get, then why still stay? Why don’t you break away from him and this relationship already? Because you think that there’s a binary relationship between him and loneliness – it’s either him OR loneliness. And you think you can’t deal with loneliness. You DON’T WA ..read more

Good morning witty I need advice. My marriage is 15 years, my husband has been chatting with this lady on Facebook and they got so intimate that I know that both of them do have video sex but I didn’t bother. Now they have taken it to the next level. He doesn’t know that I have his phone password. The lady is coming into town by this coming Tuesday and my husband has told me that he is going to secure a contract job and he will stay for 4 days in the east. He is an engineer. I know where they agreed to meet and even the hotel he booked down for her to stay. He is leaving on Wednesday morning b ..read more

Good morning MA, I am tired my faith is gradually failing and am not myself anymore please advise me.   I am married for 6 years without a child, I have had Miscarriages for 3 times. I have gone to different hospitals with my money and a little from hubby sometimes. The problem now is that my husband has decided not to have any sexual relationship with me since December until now with the reason that the ones he has been doing, he hasn’t seen any gain in it. So he is tired. We sleep together, eat together, pray together but he doesn’t feel me any longer because of childlessness. I have ca ..read more

Good morning WittySally, God bless you immensely for marriages you have helped am a member of your group and I see how people’s marital issues are been handled on the group. Ma I have something that is eating me up am tired and fed up with my marriage, sometimes I feel like taking my life. I have a son and in my marriage, my husband has had three children and brought them home I kept silent, he slaps at will. He goes after my neighbor’s sister, stylist down the street of my house. I was a banker before I married he made me stop my job to take care of home I agreed and this is what I get. Ma, t ..read more

Hello Ma, I truly love my Ex Anita and she loves me so much too, to the extent that she wants to have a child for me in school out of wedlock. We are just in year one at the polytechnic our love got deep that she will cry every time just because she wants to cheat with another guy, our love made it difficult for her. In the second year in school, I lost my father who is my backbone. This turn out to be a terrible part of my life because no one is ready to sponsor my education, so after my ND she wanted us to marry but I can’t afford the life of a married couple at that time. I told her to wait ..read more