When Is a Lesbian Not a Lesbian? Bev Jo Recognizing who is actually a Lesbian and who is an imposter is crucial for us, our Lesbian communities, relationships, and sanity. Lesbians are harmed by women who choose to not be Lesbians yet pretend to be us in order to use us. If we recognize them, we can protect ourselves. We already wrote about the impersonators who invade our lives in our book, Dykes-Loving-Dykes, such as the men who claim to be Lesbians in order to demand sexual access to us and take over our communities, and the women who choose to remain het and bisexual while also wanting to ..read more

Part Two Lesbians: “Born this Way” or Making a Choice of Pride? Bev Jo Once upon a time, not that long ago, women and certainly Lesbians knew the difference between females and males. But too many Lesbians gave up or never seemed to learn the common sense that was an essential part of Lesbian Feminism. Lesbians had fought against the trans cult for decades, until finally most seemed to have given in to the lies. (Rape and mutilation and death threats, ridicule and insults, as well as peer pressure to obey male rules, do have an effect.) It’s been over 45 years since Alix Dobkin sang “Any woman ..read more