He (32m) cheated on me (25f) at the beginning of our relationship. (5-6 years together) We were doing long distance, living in different countries during the pandemic. He had a friend with benefits. Their sexual relationship lasted 2 years, meeting every week or month. I learned about it 2-3 years after he decided to stop meeting her. During this time we moved together, got married and are expecting a baby. So everything looked perfect until I learned about his infidelity. I was so shocked and hurt because I never expected this from him. Learning about this during my pregnancy makes everythin ..read more

I'm curious as to what the differences are when if comes to being cheated on. Personally, I found the experience very humiliating and emasculating, like I was less of a man for my wife's choices. The fact that they were physical in my house made me feel Personally attacked, for instance. Do you think it's normal to feel that infidelity is slightly worse for men than for women? Have you noticed any difference between genders regarding the impact infidelity had? submitted by /u/AlexanderSpainmft [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

This is a shit place to be. If you are here, it likely means you have a non supportive, piece of trash for a partner. It probably means life served you a big ol shit sandwich and the outlook isn’t great. YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! We all do. We all deserve to be partnered with a person that loves us., Validates our experience, and practices honestly. We don’t have that, right now. But we can Make it better! We lost our support systems, but we don’t need them! On god, I won’t let this beat me. On god I won’t let another individuals lack of character and integrity ruin my experience on this planet ..read more

My ex wife used me for immigration. Our relationship before she immigrateed was perfect. But after she arrived in 5 days she left me. She had an affair back home and now that guy is here living with her. It makes me do sad and angry that she wasted 3 years of my life. Also she was my first love and i have to live with this memory. But the main confusion is i don't know what i want on days when i miss her. Like i could expose her but it won't change anything. I could call her and tell her how she used my and broke me but that won't make things back to how it was. She could come back but i won ..read more

Had to call my boyfriend for help with the car that wouldn’t start after work. Since he’s been home all this week and last, I’ve been having issues with my battery every morning and after work during this time he’s been home. Which I already find odd as I never have issues with the car as it’s brand new! I decided to call him today (only did this once) because it wouldn’t start at all. When he answered, he seemed annoyed and then a minute into the call, a faint alarm went off at exactly 4:45pm. I get home every night at 5pm (never before). I swear on my life that I heard a girls voice in the ..read more

Do you think it’s possible to trust someone again if they’ve broken your trust? Let’s say they’ve never given you a reason for why they did it, they just always say “I don’t know” so that leaves you without any kind of closure. So you have no idea what you did wrong or if you even did something wrong. There’s nothing to go off of. So then maybe sometimes all the shit you hold inside comes out, and when it does it’s like a tsunami of emotions because you’re unable to regulate your emotions due to the fact you hold shit in. It’s caused so much stress and anxiety in your life that your mind will ..read more

I’ll rewind to 2022 really quick. I found flirty messages between my husband and an online “friend”. I was ordering food on his phone and a he received an incoming text from her. I confronted him about it, said they’re just friends and he was hiding her texts from me because he was afraid I’d get jealous. Some of what he was saying didn’t add up. But I chose to forgive him and put it past us even though deep down I knew something was fishy. March 2024 the same girl’s boyfriend reached out to me on instagram to speak with me about the messages he saw between my husband and his girlfriend. Long ..read more

Long story short, I [27M] am in University and I recently broke up with [28F] who's also my batchmate. We were together, and I'd fallen in love. Ironically, she cheated just the day before I realised I'm in love with he, and I wanted to spend my life with her. She cheated with another batchmate of mine, and things ended. I don't want to get too much into it, because frankly it's too painful. We did meet and talk about things, trying to wrap my mind around the situation, and why it had come to this. Being cheated on was something I couldn't even imagine in my worst imagination. Anyhow, a lot h ..read more

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