I have had my suspicions for awhile that my gf has been cheating. What I did: I created a new apple ID and downloaded Hinge and Tinder. Haven't used Hinge yet due to troubles, but Tinder was easy to get into. Did a lot of swiping and I believe I found her but I believe she switched some things to make it NOT so obvious that it was her. One: there is no face on the tinder profile Two: Her name is Gabrielle in real life but on here, it is Gabriella. Age in real life matches the age on here. Three: there is a hand holding a food basket with items she likes: including organic bread and she's a bi ..read more

My ex (29M) and I (29M) still live together. We had a bit of a semi open relationship which involved kissing other guys only and occasional consensual threesomes with a rando. However I found out in the New Year that my ex was cheating on me and had started a relationship with another guy. He made me feel like I was crazy and it was nothing to be concerned about. I confronted him about it. He said he thought being "open" was very confusing for him. I established very clear boundaries of what is ok and what is blatant cheating. He told me that he had a "final date" with the guy because of how ..read more

Dday was 5 weeks ago when I found numerous FB messages to various women he found on dating sites and bookings for happy ending massages. I confronted him and he eventually confessed. We’ve been married over 20 years and together for 24 with kids and a house. He accepted a job overseas and always claimed he was lonely and bored every time we FaceTimed. I felt sorry for him but was overwhelmed while trying to work, take care of the house, yard, kids and pets so I didn’t think too much about it. Recently he came home to visit and while using his computer a suspicious message popped up. I clicked ..read more

Sorry if not allowed, but I'm trying to make sense of things. The truth about my husband having an affair came out about a week and a half ago. Despite me finding this out, we have been having sex almost every day for a week now. Is this normal? I don't understand why I have these urges to be with him constantly after this. I also found out that the majority of his sexual relations with the other woman were mostly oral or non-vaginal, but the majority of the sex we have is vaginal. I'm having a hard time wondering what is the difference between me and her. He did mention that it was about con ..read more

5 days ago I (m/22) went through my boyfriend’s (m/22) phone and saw he spent over a thousand dollars on onlyfans, sexted with multiple people (allegedly OF creators), and saw that he downloaded and paid for grindr premium for at least 4 months in the past year and a half we’ve been dating. 6 months ago i found his secret twitter acc where he looks at porn and i told him that he has an addiction which he denied but he deleted the account as soon as i asked him to. After seeing everything 5 days ago I’ve felt so much anger, anxiety, sadness, and frustration because i don’t understand why he di ..read more

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She won’t acknowledge me. I keep thinking maybe she has moved on. My heart weeps. I want to curl up into a ball and die my heart weeps. She was my best friend we talked everyday. How can a day go by and she doesn’t have the urge to hear my voice anymore doesn’t she know I love her. My heart weep each and every day crying out for the girl I love. Her beautiful smile our inside jokes my heart weeps. Broken shattered into pieces I did wrong yes I did wrong never physically but enough to break her heart. I’m sorry don’t you believe me? Does anyone? Am I playing the victim? I’m seriously not tryin ..read more

hi i’m 21 female and im in a constant struggle. my boyfriend 21 male has been on this constant string of weird behavior. After i caught him lying and cheating on me twice i finally had to the courage to take a break and rethink my life. My boyfriend was always sneaky when it came to being on his phone and i never knew why. One day while he was asleep i searched his phone and to my horror i found a-lot of damning evidence. He was still talking to other people but instead of women it was men and i mean a-lot of men. He subscribed to gay men only fans, he sent dick pics, he got pictures from the ..read more

I didn’t think I would post here, but there were no other posts that quite fit my situation and it’s left me thinking that maybe there’s a reason for that. Last year I (30F) cheated on my partner (33M) of 15 years. Years of up and down mental health, poor communication, financial stress, children and then both of us went through a very traumatic event together (finding our neighbour unalived). I bucked under the stress, we were both suffering tremendously, but my coping mechanisms were poor and I disassociated. No blame games here, I am very aware that irregardless of my mental health, what I ..read more

( Not the OP but thought he could get honest opinions here) We have been married for 3 years (arranged marriage) and we're totally in love and are soulmates. Last night, I found some audio call recordings of her with 3 of her exes. I was aware of her previous relationships before marriage but I chose never to know further details as long as she was over them and had moved on. I confronted her about the calls and she denied having any recollection of those calls being saved on the hardisk. We fought for a few hours, the she dreadfully said there's more - One of her exes filmed them having sex ..read more