Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareJanuary 31, 2011 Yep–Marriage is GOOD for you! National Marriage Week is coming up quickly–February 7th to the 14th–and all across the world (literally) there are plans and celebrations to encourage many diverse groups to strengthen individual marriages, reduce the divorce rate, and build a stronger marriage culture, which in turn helps curtail poverty and benefits children.  So to prepare for the upcoming week and recognize the significance of marriage, I thought it would be fun to talk this week about making a case FOR marriage.In the news recen ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at Affaircare | September 23, 2010 YourTango Final Word “Experts Agree: Cheating Is Not About Sex”   YourTango recently asked some of the top love experts to give the final word on the most-asked relationship and dating questions. This episode of “The Final Word,” was so good, we just HAD to share it!  They asked Ian Kerner, Evan Marc Katz, Debra Burrell and Andrea Syrtash why people are unfaithful. Surprisingly, it often has nothing to do with sex. Among the reasons why people cheat? Emotional connection, excitement and—as counterintuitive as it may ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareMay 24, 2010 What is a Love Extinguisher? Love is a decision, not a feeling; it is a conscious choice to act in a loving way toward another person.  Love is an initiated action.  To understand what a Love Extinguisher is, you could read the Basic Concepts article to get a more indepth explanation.  Briefly, to help you envision the idea, think of the love in your marriage like a campfire.  The feelings of passion and interest are the fire.  Around the fire are the protective stones of your vow.  You can choose to do action ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareMarch 24, 2010 What do you do when your spouse won’t have sex with you? (Disclaimer: Affaircare is a Christian site, and so this reply is from that perspective. We are not judgmental or preachy, but rather answer as if we were speaking to other Christian people, in a practical and loving way.) We get this question or problem very often from the people on our site, and it is a frequent marital issue and significant Love Extinguisher. Often when libidos are somewhat close, and for the most part Love Extinguishers are being avoided while Love Kindlers ar ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareOctober 3, 2010 Two BIG Affaircare Announcements Tomorrow Affaircare has a very special honor indeed. Last week our show on Handmaiden Live was so fun and was such as success that we’ve been asked back for Round 2! So tomorrow, Monday October 4th, our ministry will again be the special guest at 11am ET/8am PT on Handmaiden Live! Click to listen, or copy and paste the link below: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/handmaidenlive/2010/10/04/affaircares-coach-cindy-j-taylor-part-2 During the show tomorrow, we will be discussing the transparent truths of the l ..read more

Affaircare …nouthetic, Christian care after an affair. Affaircare Blog/Podcast Fees Contact Us Search for: Date: February 20, 2015  Author: Cindy at Affaircare   Category: Affair, Affaircare, Cheating, Christian, infidelity, marriage, Podcast I just found out my spouse is cheating-what do I do? How do I do ‘no contact’ when we have children? My spouse was unfaithful and there’s going to be a child! Before you cheat here are some things you should know. In this week’s episode, we continue our new our series  “The 8 Most Popular Topics on Affaircare.” We’re doing a countdo ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareMarch 2, 2010 This song may save your marriage Here on Affaircare we strive to bring our readers content that will strengthen their marriages and make them affair-free. When I heard this song I just knew that I had to share it’s wisdom. The lyrics are powerful so please listen to it more than once. HERE’S WHAT YOU CAN DO: Here’s what you need to do: Listen to the song by clicking on this link. If you agree with us that this song has a powerful message that couples need to hear, share it with EVERYONE you know. Please leave a comment below with how this ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareFebruary 13, 2011 Thoughts on the eve of Valentines Day (day 13) devotion is a choice a lover makes allegiance to the one ambrosial valentine throughout the passing years and through mistakes intimately sharing personal details of their heart, their mind, their all honoring their paramour, their sweet taking time to nurture thus the thrill aspiring to become the one helpmeet you turn to at the ending of each day longing for a touch, a hug, a kiss or just a glance or kindly word to say “romeo had nothing close to this!” wpcom_adclk_hovering = false;var ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareMay 4, 2010 The First Two Step You Can Take to End Your Spouse’s Affair You’ve suspected for a while that something is not right between you and your spouse. Maybe they were spending lots of extra hours “at work” but there was no overtime on their paycheck. Maybe they completely changed their music, hairstyle, or clothing choices to something appropriate for someone decades younger. Maybe they were chatting or texting all the time and then deleted everything so you couldn’t see it. Whatever the reasons, you had a sneaking suspicion something wasn’t rig ..read more

  Posted by: Cindy at AffaircareFebruary 4, 2010 The first week of February is significant The first week of February is a very significant week for me personally. It was during this week, long ago, that my ex (husband at the time) left me for his other woman and moved to another state, and for a few weeks no one knew where he was. It was during this week that my own Dear Hubby’s ex (wife at the time) left him and moved out so she could “be happy.” It was during this week, years after my divorce, that I sent my Dear Hubby the first post and asked him what his username meant (he has ..read more