I’ve been dealing with a lot on my mind for the past couple of years because of all these intrusive thoughts in my mind. These are all related to the fact that I don’t have a girlfriend and there is literally nobody who has even found me to be interesting. I’ve done a lot of bad and cringy things that I can’t move on from and I feel hurt when I look back on all these horrible things that I’ve done as a person I’ve never experienced romance such as cuddling or my first kiss or anything like that My parents are probably disappointed that I can’t find a better job because I am not good at anythi ..read more

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my nose is atrocious, but im stuck with it for the rest of my life (rhinoplasty will not be an option ..) how do i cope with this self-hatred from it ? i hate being sad about my appearance, but its hard not to let it get to me submitted by /u/wonkysandwich521 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I literally can't take selfies without feeling insecure and I can't go out in leggings without feeling like I'm being judged and I can't wear my favorite pair of jeans without being cat called for no reason and I started just not like myself that much anymore and I want to know if there's just a way to start liking myself again cuz I haven't felt good in a long while it's really starting to make me feel awful mentally, and it doesn't help when you don't have anyone to understand your struggle submitted by /u/horrorisntdead22 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

So I do go to therapy (went today actually virtually.) She asked me if I loved myself and I said no. Sure I'm trying to be healthier and exercise and do my art but... I don't think I like myself or love myself. I use physical affection as a bandage for a bullet hole that is the lack of self love. It's hard to give myself grace.... Idk venting rn Edit: a Lil more context. I'm super morbidly obese like 390s lb. Um I have pcos, facial hair, and some weird dry circular patches on my skin thay only went away when I lost weight but I gained it back again. Um one day my friends made a silly hit list ..read more

She is dating another guy.. My lover left her because he came to know that she was dating many boys with the same pattern of sympathy while she was relationship with my bf.. So he moved on later .. Recently i stalked her because we came to know that she got commited with another guy .. And i found she commented on the another guy's insta post years ago while she was dating my bf . From then she managed to cheat on my bf . I felt sorry for my bf and texted him a long paragraph how i feel about him and how lucky i am to have him in my life .. He was very happy.. Do i need inform my bf about thi ..read more

Basically had a breakdown due to a traumatic event and moved back into my parents. Was very 'needy' during this period. As a result I sort of lost my self love. How do I get that self love back? My parents sort of treat me like dirt for not having any self love. So it's hard to get it back. submitted by /u/Even-Specific-2766 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Hi. I'm currently working through the book 'love yourself like your life depended on it'. I'm doing the practice. If not familiar, it involves repeating I love myself in various forms of affirmation, meditation and to yourself in the mirror. As well as forgiving yourself and writing a vow to love yourself. There's a lot more to it and worth a read/listen. Any way, I've been doing the practice pretty full on to work through a rough time, and I'm finding myself getting really tired mentally. Does anyone else find this with, doing the work involved with intense self love ? Will it get less tirin ..read more

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