Counselling BC Blog
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Counselling BC is a very well utilized website in British Columbia that is owned by Absolute Balance Counselling & Consulting Ltd. Their mission is to be the "go to" resource in BC when searching for counselling professions.
Counselling BC Blog
1w ago
I am going to say something somewhat controversial. We have very few needs in our relationships. I might go as far as saying that we don’t need anything from our partner.
We need air to breathe and food to eat. This is the level of need. It is associated with our survival. Language is powerful. This is why when we use the word need to express what we want in relationships it has the energy of ‘must-have urgency’ behind it. It is a demand.  ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
1w ago
Living with ADHD is a unique journey that presents its own set of challenges and opportunities for growth. This condition goes beyond occasional distractions or forgetfulness; it profoundly influences one’s ability to manage daily tasks, maintain relationships, and achieve personal goals. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) intricately weaves through the fabric of an individual’s life, affecting their emotional, academic, and professional landscapes.
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Counselling BC Blog
2w ago
In today's fast-paced world, stress has become an inevitable part of our daily lives. From the moment we wake up, we are bombarded with a myriad of responsibilities and demands, be it emails, client calls, household tasks, or caregiving. As a result, our sympathetic nervous system, responsible for triggering the fight-or-flight response, is constantly triggered, leading to feelings of overwhelm and short tempers. However, there is a way to regain control and find balance amidst this chaos – mindfulness ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
3w ago
Low self-esteem can be a significant source of stress in the workplace, impacting productivity, job satisfaction, and overall well-being. In this blog post, I'll delve deeper into the seven common ways that low self-esteem contributes to workplace stress and provide practical solutions to overcome these challenges.
1-Self-Doubt and Decision-Making ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
1M ago
In recent years, the Polyvagal Theory, developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, has provided valuable insights into understanding the connection between chronic stress, anxiety, and our body's innate response system. This theory suggests that our autonomic nervous system plays a crucial role in our emotional well-being. The theory is based on the notion that this system is dynamically regulated by our experiences and can greatly impact our mental health ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
1M ago
Let's do a check-in: Are you where you want to be in life- Financially? Romantically? Parenthood- or Career-wise?
If yes, great.
If not, what's gotten in the way? Two actions need to be practiced to get to living the life you want. First is knowing what your goal is. And that takes defining what you want and with a timeline. For example, "I'd like to own a home by the time I am 40". Or "I want to give birth to my first child before my 35th birthday." If this is easy for you, great.  ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
2M ago
Internal Family System, developed by Richard Schwartz, a Marriage and Family Therapist, is a therapeutic approach that recognizes the presence of different parts within individuals, just like how different members exist within a family. The purpose of Internal Family System is to address and work with these various internal parts.
In my therapy sessions with clients, I often utilize this approach to help them identify their internal parts and activate the Self, which serves as the leader of these internal family members (the parts ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
2M ago
Are you getting burnt out by someone in your life?
Do you feel resentment towards them?
Are you exhausted?
Do you feel guilty for not being able to maintain a lot of contact with them?
Ask yourself this: Are you good at setting boundaries with others?
Setting boundaries with others is a healthy way to preserve a relationship. When we constantly go beyond our limit with others we end up feeling resentful and wanting to avoid contact. We stay on the phone longer than we'd like, or spend money we don't have on them, or always go over to their house.  ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
2M ago
Even the mention of shame brings up a desire to avoid even talking about it. It is the worst feeling and experience. It can be experienced as a constant dull ache lurking to erupt if we give it any attention, to a sudden flash of heat and intense feeling of needing to disappear. Shame is a relational experience. In other words, we are shamed by others and we develop internal shaming to prevent further experiences of shame, including shaming others ..read more
Counselling BC Blog
2M ago
Wounds, whether they are physical or emotional, can be quite painful. When it comes to physical wounds, we are often advised not to touch or disturb them. This is because we are concerned about the possibility of infection, bleeding, or making the wound worse ..read more