If it weren't for forced circumstances I'd probably never make another friend. Anyone else the same way? When I was younger it was school and people forced to be around me. Now its work. The friendships that can happen can still be profound but I literally need a deserted Island to have a shot. submitted by /u/NaryaMoogle [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Let's see how many of you can tell the type of a person purely based on your own deduction skills/observation without using any online testing framework. View Poll submitted by /u/emdsasonianos [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Think I’m a high functioning depressed person. Feel like everyone is also like me too, just hiding and lying like all humans do. I am miserable, I have been since I stopped dissociating and living in a day dream, since my brain stopped repressing memories because I can now handle emotions apparently. 20 y/o infj, lives in first world that realistically has no real threat or danger to its existence but still miserable and has anxiety bad enough to be put in a mental asylum in the 50s. Cool. No hope for the future, society is collapsing. As I grow older and am exposed to life, the worse it gets ..read more

I honestly have terrible fashion sense. I am a kind of a guy who can wear Formal shirts with joggers and go to university. Glad I have Si dom sisters who help me in buying clothes. I am hopeless when I am buying alone? Do anybody faces same problems? or any advice for improving fashion sense. submitted by /u/Mo_onE1four0 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Not that this is altogether a bad thing. I have a wild imagination and went on an AMAZING research craze this weekend to try to connect religion to the origins of the universe, etc. My mind is such an interesting wonderful place, it almost makes the outside world seem too common and mundane. Actually the outside world is pretty great in all of its beauty. I feel most at peace in nature and in art museums. But my near-constant whirlwind of existential thoughts do make me quite awkward or goofy towards others and bored if not intellectually stimulated. I often zone out and fall into a daydream ..read more

To those INFJs that are in a relationship, how did you meet your partner? And what made you like them? Did they tick all the things that you're looking for? As an INFJ, I find myself having a hard time looking for a partner. Idk, maybe I'm looking at the wrong places? Or it's the wrong time? submitted by /u/Tentententenenenen [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I do not know if it was just me. Because of my recent experience, I want to avoid people who get satisfied by humiliating others. I do not understand if they just got ticked off or they just want to start a heated discussion, but I do know that what I was saying was too shallow to to gain aggressive responses. Too shallow, I mean like a trivia that doesn't need contradiction, and it felt like I'm being preyed. I wasn't even talking to them. I have different audience and they were just listening. Until they butted in. I was surprised. At first I didn't know how to react, but to stop the tensio ..read more

Im posting on here bc i feel the relationship advice forum sucks. I don’t completely agree with mbti but would like other INFJS perspective. I’m 30(f) Infj my bf is 28(m) intj we only been together for 2months. I have a history of UTI’s for years and was suffering in pain, and I used to work in the adult industry as a dancer 3 years ago. A week ago I recently took vaginal probiotics & I no longer get UTIs. He knowws my history, I didn’t think he would hold any of these things against me, but I found out after we had sex, I got tested and found out I had an STD, chlamydia. I told him he mo ..read more

I'm a 24 year old male INTP who just moved to a new city. I have a group of friends in the city, including an INFJ female that I have been close with. Despite having a boyfriend, she has always been oddly physical with me, asking for multiple hugs when we parted ways and holding my arm when I'm down. She always complimented me for my interests and jokes, more than our other mutual friends. I've recently realized that I had feelings for her; I tried to suppress since she had a boyfriend but I've come to the point that I find it hard to anymore. Her relationship is ending soon, as her boyfriend ..read more

I've felt like an outcast my entire life and now in my early 30s I feel this way more than ever. It's incredibly lonely when your bids for connection with others gets met with uneasiness or indifference. Everyone says you just have to be patient and find "your people," but I'm starting to wonder if my people really exist? Who else can relate? submitted by /u/JackAtlas13 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more