It comes up a lot that my mom passed away because it just happened a few months ago but 99% of me died that day too. And I hate myself any time I even mention any level of pain to my nearest and dearest because it doesn’t matter, they most likely have stuff too and things that they can change or can fix. I just have to live in this and keep getting stuck in my own head. Yay for INFJ problems ..read more

I am closed up yet I open up to the right people. Sometimes I wish I opened up to people but I’d rather sit in the background with the cat. I would say Cats are my friends. Is that sad.. I have no human friends ..read more

I often feel out of pace with my surroundings. With decisions concerning only me I tend to make up my mind instantly, no need for advice or opinions. When it comes to relationships it’s the total opposit. I feel like others jump into relationships way to quickly, be it romantical or not. To me it’s unimaginable to want to spend that much time with someone you just met. It’s like they are obsessed and it makes me take several steps back ..read more

Confession: other INFJs look nothing like I expected them to. Everyone looks so normal… I thought everyone would be freaky in some way. Crazed hermits or moody goths. I do not know. I just expected everyone to be as much of a aberration as myself ..read more

Me personally as an infj hold sex so highly. I’m 19 years old and Im still a virgin.. most of my friends lost theirs at 13. I don’t judge and I 100% believe that people can do whatever they want but me personally I view sex different than most. I once heard someone say sex stands for Sacred Energy eXchange and that hit home for me. I don’t plan on saving it for marriage but I want to actually be in love with someone and connect on a deep level. But all the people I meet only want sex ..read more

May I ask what other infjs are doing for a living and if they are happy with it? I think that would be very interesting to see ..read more

I go through phases where I’m very talkative and am in touch with reality but other times I’m very isolated and get lost in my own thoughts while shutting everybody else out. Does anybody else feel this way ..read more

Tonight I made the decision to door slam a friend who has been taking me for granted and unwittingly giving me so much heartbreak. I know it’s not entirely their fault, but I also know that my health and wholeness are worth preserving, so I’m really happy and proud of myself for doing this, even though it is scary too. I’m so used to being “the good friend” that I’m nervous about what would happen when I actually start asserting what I want. But I’m going to do it anyway ..read more

My best best friend is my teddy. He’s always there to hear my thoughts, always there if I need someone to cuddle, is never blaming me and never stops smiling at me ..read more

I have no idea how to take care of myself but if you need to be taken to a crisis center at 330 in the morning, I’ll walk a mile to take you there. Somehow, I haven’t made a lot of progress in my own mental health endeavors but I can’t stop ..read more