The Narcissistic Life
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My name is Alexander Burgemeester and I’m a Psychologist for more than 5 years now. All you need to know about Narcissists.
The Narcissistic Life
2d ago
I now pronounce you… …Wait! You said, ‘I Do?’ Marrying a narcissist is not the end of the world (there’s always a way out, even if it’s messy). However, understanding exactly what you’ve got into once you see the mask start to slip can be devastating. You think you’re starting a brand new chapter with ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
2d ago
When the gaslight gets switched on, there is a high risk it can start a destructive fire in your house of peace. Your reality is taken, twisted and denied in a warped attempt from the narcissist to manipulate you and assert their power and dominance. Gaslighting can be small and subtle, and learning to spot ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
2d ago
A narcissist loves to corner you until your emotions spill over. As soon as they do, they step away and shine a light on you. “Look how crazy and deluded this person is,” they innocently tell others. Well, there is actually a very interesting and effective way to handle being cornered. You don’t allow it. ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
2d ago
Narcissists hate seeing others fly. If they get wind of a fraction of your dream, be prepared for their cruel and callous intent to destroy it any way they can. Why do narcissists do this? Because they hate seeing other people happy and most of all… Narcissists hate your success. The only success they are ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
2d ago
Narcissistic parents talking to their kids. Narcissistic partners talking to their spouses. Narcissistic bosses talking to their employees. Their words come out of their mouth quite openly and audaciously, yet what’s going on with their eyes? Have you ever noticed a narcissist just cannot look you in the eye? Maybe they have fleeting moments where ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
2d ago
It’s 2am. You’re thinking about your narcissistic ex. You’ve so far not had a wink of sleep, and every time you try to clear your mind, those racing thoughts just crop back up. Time and time again, you feel as though you’re going to go crazy, but you cannot seem to shake the questions whirring ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
3d ago
I see it all the time… “Please help me call the narcissist in my life out. I need them and everybody around them to see the kind of person they really are underneath it all!” If it were as easy as holding them up and revealing their manipulative ways, I would be one of the ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
3d ago
Calling out a narcissist is pointless. In fact, if I could give you negative points for doing so, I really would. It gets you nowhere fast and leads to the very type of pain and conflict you are trying hard to avoid. Narcissists have selective hearing, and they will only hear you hurting their pride. ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
3d ago
In a world where more and more people are being affected by narcissists, it’s hard fto imagine a type of person immune to them. Imagine! Somebody who just shrugs and gets on with their day when confronted with toxic behavior. The true acceptance that narcissists live among us, but refusing to be drawn into their ... Read more ..read more
The Narcissistic Life
3d ago
Covert narcissism is fairly recent when it comes to our understanding of narcissism in general. Covert narcissists are victimized people who appear to be vulnerable and needy. They can exhibit needy traits. Resentful is the middle name of a covert narcissist who generally likes to use their ‘Poor Me’ ploy to reel in sympathizers whom ... Read more ..read more