There are numerous factors which govern whether we will attempt to hoover you post-escape or post-discard. Some of these factors determine the style of the hoover, whether it will be malign or benign and also how often the attempts will be made. There are several considerations which have a material impact on whether a hoover […] The post Knowing the Narcissist : The Spheres of Influence – What Triggers A Hoover By A Narcissist? appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  “I love you.” “I have heard this is a good one for getting a reaction from you because this is what you always want to hear.”   “You won’t ever amount to anything.” “Not while I am interfering in every facet of your life, controlling you and making your childhood and your adult life […] The post Why The MatriNarc Knows Best appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  The following is a breakdown of an interaction between a Middle Mid-Range Narcissist and a Geyser Standard Empath. The two are in a Formal Relationship of Narcissist and Shelf IPSS (“SIPSS”). People who do have  the benefit of realising what this actually would see as a married person who is having an affair with someone who is The […] The post Analysis : The Affair Partner (Narcissist Vs Shelf IPPS) appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  What is Emotional Empathy and who has it? What is its role with regard to empaths, normal people and narcissists? To ensure you understand what has happened to you in respect of your involvement with the narcissist AND to allow you to defend yourself against future ensnarement and hurt, this Assistance Package will provide […] The post Knowing the Narcissist : Understanding Emotional Empathy : The Difference Between Empath, Normal and Narcissist appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  I have heard this said so many times, read about it from bewildered and perplexed people and know from experience the confusion that accompanies this question. “But how could he do this to me after everything else? But why would he behave like this? But who would do such a thing as that? He […] The post But Why Did the Narcissist Do That? appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  You are no doubt familiar with the quotation “History is written by the victors” to explain that those who triumph then re-write what has happened to accord with their new-found supremacy. We bastardise that quotation. We re-write history in order to ensure that we are the victors. We love to win. We hate to […] The post The Revision of History appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  The emotional spectrum afforded to my kind is limited. The bulk of the positive emotions that you experience have either been stripped away or moulded into one all-pervasive sensation and that is of power. Whereas you might experience joy, elation, happiness and delight, we feel power. That surging sensation which courses through us as […] The post I Second That Emotion appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

  Life on the shelf is often difficult. Knowing The Narcissist is the only place which explains this dynamic with accuracy. You often find yourself isolated, unable to talk to others about the affair you are engaged with and if there are others you can speak to, they do not understand you are dealing with […] The post Knowing the Narcissist : Black or White? On the Shelf appeared first on HG Tudor - Knowing The Narcissist - The World's No.1 Resource About Narcissism ..read more

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