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Melanie Tonia Evans is a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Expert, healer, author and radio host. Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships.
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
11M ago
Welcome to Thriver TV.
Today, I want to talk about what type of narcissist that you are dealing with. Is it an overt narcissist or a covert narcissist? Is it a somatic narcissist? Is it an altruistic narcissist?
Or maybe this is a person who has minor narcissistic tendencies, and there is some hope to be able to have a healthy relationship with them. Or maybe they are suffering from some other personality disorder, or perhaps they’re just selfish or unconscious.
How can you know?
Today, I want to really speak to this because, over the years that I’ve been helping people recover from nar ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
11M ago
FREEDOM from persecution is one of my favorite topics … ever!
Persecution is deeply interconnected with all things NASTY that hold us back as human beings.
Many of us who have been narcissistically abused have suffered the devastating and crippling effects of persecution programs.
Today I want to talk about how our past human history has contributed to CRIPPLING persecution programs, why they are not just because of terror but also SHAME, and how to go free from persecution programs durably … FOREVER.
I know that many of you are excited about delving into this topic and receiving the powerful ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
11M ago
I understand the trauma and horror that is felt when a narcissist moves on to a new supply – often in the time it takes to boil an egg!
I really wanted to do this Thriver TV episode because I hear how agonizing it is when the narcissist discards you for someone new, and even worse when you see them so in love and forthcoming with this new person.
I often hear this: ” S/he seems to be granting the new supply everything I wanted. Does this mean there is something wrong with me?”
This is why I really wanted to do this ThriverTV episode for you. I promise you that in true Thriver orientation, I wa ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
11M ago
Welcome, Dear Thrivers, to our live session today on how to win against a toxic person or situation.
This will also be going up on YouTube as a Thriver TV episode. I’m planning to release a new Thriver TV episode every week.
Before we get into it, I just want to say thank you so much for connecting to my work. And I hope you’re as excited as I am about Thriver TV making a comeback and returning to getting these very important messages out to those who can benefit from knowing that real healing starts from the inside out.
To start, I want to touch on what our definition of “Thriv ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
11M ago
This is our first session in Series 7, Dissolving Shame, called “You are not your past.”
Welcome to our new Shifts Happen Members. It’s lovely to have you live in our full workshop today. I know that you are looking forward to going free from shame, and of course, as always, I’m thrilled to have all of our members here together from all over the world.
Today’s lesson is extremely important because our past has so much to do with the toxic shame we’re carrying that disables our highest and best life. I’ve been looking forward to doing this session with you, and I trust that it will make ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
11M ago
Today’s lesson is one of activation.
Being able to trust yourself and move forward into a superior move.
What does this mean?
It means making an empowered decision aligned with your true Source Force.
This means a decision that isn’t about walking around the block metaphorically 50 times to try to cross the road. You walk straight across. This means a decision that is congruent with your clear intention.
Superior moves are often organic when you have done the preparation work, with extra required teaching that is pivotal to unlocking them.
I am going to be sharing what this is and how to gradu ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
1y ago
This is a BIG lesson today. It’s a REAL lesson about manifestation.
In this session, the third of series six, Empowered Decisions, things get really juicy and exciting. We’ve laid the groundwork in session one of this series, for you to be able to move into listening to your inner guidance and making fearless decisions as a result of navigating your frequency and realizing at an inner level what feels expansive and following that.
Then, in lesson two of this series, we anchored into realizing that outer forces aren’t your security, and you in a co-generative relationship with Source, are your ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
1y ago
In this second session of Series 6, Empowered Decisions, we explore how to feel empowered enough to make the right decisions in challenging times.
In a world that often feels uncertain and unpredictable, many seek security and stability from outside sources – people, places, and things we depend on to provide direction and protection.
However, what if I told you that true security comes from within? Now, more than ever, being your own security force, embodied, is vital. This anchor and self-definition are your paths to “home.”
It’s true–you can become your own security by tapping into your con ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
1y ago
In a world that often feels uncertain and unpredictable, many find themselves seeking security and stability from outside sources – people, places, and things that we become dependent on to provide direction and protection. However, what if I told you that true security comes from within? It’s true– you are ultimately responsible for your own security, well-being and happiness and you have infinite access to this by tapping into your inner strength and connection with Source.
Our recent Shifts Happen workshop, titled “You Are Your Security,” delved deep into this concept, exploring how to unlo ..read more
Melanie Tonia Evans Blog
1y ago
If life has felt harder than usual lately, you’re not alone. At this pivotal moment we are being called to align with our higher wisdom and face the world confidently as we make fearless decisions. Knowing that each embodied action is moving us closer to being the most authentic versions of ourselves.
In our recent Shifts Happen session, part of our Series Six theme, Empowered Action, we delved deep into the transformative power of making courageous choices aligned with our soul’s truth.
As we navigate the seasons of life, many of us find ourselves confronted with challenging feelings, circums ..read more