Hello me luvs. Hope you're all well. Today I managed to make a mess of my shift rota and turned in for work when I could have had a lie in. To be honest, I could have slept until noon, I'm absolutely knackered (No, it definitely has nothing to do with my acquisition of Metal Gear Solid - The Phantom Pain, honest).  But I'm awake now and I haven't written in ages, so I thought... why not? Just to say here, about where I left off last time...  I won't be continuing that story in the same form. Mainly because the dredging through painful memory wasn't helping me to heal. Perhaps one da ..read more

A Lady named Sara7391 posted a question on a forum for CD's which I know to frequent (check me out, getting all posh :D), and my reply went on so much of a tangent that I decided to post the content here. I thought it was a great question and it's something I've wanted to blog about for a while. So here it goes; Are you a boob man, leg man or a butt man and does this influence the way you dress? A question for hetrosexual and bisexual MTF dressers. What physically attracts you to women and do you think it influences the way you dress? Of course, there's much more to attraction than how a woma ..read more

I'd just like the extend a big "Thank YOU" to everyone who took part in the survey. When I posted the survey, I honestly believed that I would get about 300 responses to this,  but then I saw it hit over 2oo in just a few days, I began to hope for 500. Then when it got to 500 I thought "Right! TOO THE MOON! ONE THOUSAND!".... I think I got carried away. We've closed entries at 740 responses total (Nice full number isn't it? Not 739 or even 741. No, 740 is our number. :D I'm really pleased because this will turn out much better quality data than my initial hope for 300. And yet I'm dis ..read more

Yeah, sorry about the interlude there everyone, but I've been quite busy. And that's not just an excuse, I have genuinely been up to my eyeballs. For one - My Girlfriend became my wife at the end of May. Yes, I got married! My long suffering lady actually wanted to marry my sorry ass *Smirk*. It's kinda weird, people always say "Our wedding day was the happiest day of our lives" and I always thought that was just 'the done thing' to say. That is until I went through it for myself. Now I fully appreciate what people are talking about when they say it. Not only is it you, proclaiming your love ..read more

Hello again everyone. It's been a while. Don't worry, I'm well, it's just sometimes my CD life doesn't have a great deal happening and my guy life will have everything happening, and that just makes it hard to write a good chunk of... Well, anything really. Let alone anything that anyone will really want to read and stick with. That isn't to say I haven't been checking in and blocking people from my Flickr and Google+. I'm taking zero chances now when it comes to my privacy. That's just how it is. If someone has a problem with my policy on blocking anyone I cant trust, then leave me a comme ..read more

Well, where do I begin??? Because folks, it has certainly been a while. A follow up to the last blog would be a good place eh? All stories have a beginning, middle and an end, and so does this one. To cut a long one short - 'Liz' moved out. No more worry over "Did I get all that eye-liner off?" or "Shit! Did I leave caked up make-up wipes in the bathroom?", now I can return to my mess and throw my bras where I like.... As long as it's near the wash basket... My Mrs goes fucking spare! No, in all honesty, having another female presence in the house was nice in truth. Me good lady always ..read more

Is a friend indeed. Or so they tell me. Since around May, maybe earlier, until 9 weeks ago, my Mrs has been coming home from work, telling me of the ongoing saga that was the on/off relationship between her co-worker, (lets call her Liz for the sake of not repeatedly typing 'co-worker' or 'colleague'), and her now ex boyfriend.  There was something awful happening every couple of weeks. One minute the guy was violently threatening Liz, two weeks later doing the same to Liz's sister, breaking up, making up, accusing her of cheating, more violent threats and more emotional black mai ..read more

Whether or not your significant other (here-in referred to as 'SO') knows about your cross-dressing, there is added pressure on you and your relationship with them, purely because of your needs. I'm not going to spend too long preaching about making sure your SO has all the information at hand to make an in informed decision about your future together, but with-holding the truth means not only are you hiding, but you are also unsure of how your Mrs would feel about you if you were to come clean. I know all about it. I've been in that situation, and I can say, even after what I am abo ..read more

I am not one of those people. And so I am writing this as a reminder to you all that good business' exist, and I'm going to talk about one of them today. So recently I had a birthday, yes I know, how can I possibly be 21 again? Well, that secret is mine and mine to keep. However, www.BananaShoes.com should be no secret to my CD/TV/TS brethren/sistren. They sell shoes for girls in up to size 14 (UK) heels, boots, even some flats. Now, as mentioned in a previous blog, I am somewhat dismayed by the lack of choice that Banana Shoes have when you get past size 8. This isn't their fault, t ..read more

In a bid to save myself time in repeating the same thing to everyone, and possibly forever mark myself as vain and narcissistic, I present to you today my number 1 tip that will save you time like you time spent getting ready like never before. We all love nails don't we? I mean pretty painted ones on your fingers, not the ones you hit with a hammer. (Yes, I occasionally hit my thumb nail with a hammer, but that's a different blog.) If you answered no to this question, please leave, the following does not concern you. I get asked/commented on, on a fairly regular basis across various support ..read more