“Crossdressers find it difficult to understand why a wife could accept a friend as a crossdresser but not their husband” as My wifes said this to me, she’d be ok if it was a friend of ours who was a crossdresser but it’s hard to accept me as a T-Girl / Crossdresser as she said when I told her “It’s just not you… it’s not something You’d ever do” … but it is and I do do it. I don’t try to make up for being a Crossdresser as I am a great father and a loyal hard working husband and always put my ..read more

Katie makes a good point in the chat help and debate page “Is the love for a husband conditional?” I  would like my wife to dress up a little more, to see her in dresses, tights (stockings ohhh) and high heels but I’m not about to leave because she won't. Interestingly Emma did a positive thing for both herself and her husband as in the previous blog and as her confidence grew so did her acceptance. Maybe her secret is that she boosted her own self-esteem at the same time as taking on the ..read more

The curiosity with Crossdressing between husband and wives or Bfs and Gfs of how much we really understand the feelings of the other side is all down to open and honest communication be it verbally or written down. I cannot begin to TRULY understand how a wife or my wife might feel about my crossdressing, without being clouded with insecurities, guilt and bias if a wife / my wife won’t tell me TRULY how she feels and wives and Gfs can never truly understand the crossdressing need, without being ..read more

When I got married : A) Crossdressing in my mind wasn’t a factor as I’d more or less stopped dressing B) I didn’t think Crossdressing would ever be a problem or factor until it escalated due to stress and C) How do we know how women will react to us as Crossdressers? Should we turn them aside and avoid marrying someone we love by not marrying women who accept us as Crossdressers – We’re not inflicted with some disease, we just like to dress up and it’s so occasional and has no negative bearing ..read more

We were arranging a night out with the girls and they said he could cometoo but no other husbands or bfs were invited and he went on to textmy friend asking what to wear as it was a girls night and she textback you are one of the girls.So he text should he wear a dress and so on which my friend found funny.Then it came to the night and the girls said they were disappointed he wasn't wearing a dress.So on he went to tell them he would have but I wouldn't let him and told them all about his ..read more

He's admitted he went outside as "Davina"one winter night in the dark to put the bins out and again I want not happy about this as I feel it's taking it a step too far asking for trouble ..read more

 I  was not happy about this him being that careless and the fact that  they might have seen him and might have recognised him ..read more

 I've admitted I was a bitch early onwith him crossdressing and he tells it as it was in his blog but Ihope I'm not a bitch now about his dressing up ..read more

Hes put together this blog and I suppose its nice to be able to read his thoughts which we both still find hard to talk about although we're getting better ..read more

http://uk.pinterest.com/cdtra007/why-do-men-crossdress/Some interesting photos and comments on Pintrest ..read more