Dear readers, Writing this blog has been an incredible learning experience and I am very grateful for all the support messages that I have received from my readers from all over the world during this journey. However, as you probably know, time is limited and I am unable to find any time right now to continue writing my stories in this blog. But don't worry, I have not stop writing! In fact, I am in the process of writing my first queer theme novel. I will keep you all updated with the progress so you can be the first one to read it once is ready. Thank you for being there and please, get i ..read more

A few weeks ago I went to a party organized by #HER, a new dating app for women. This post narrates the second part of the night (catch up on the first part of the story on my previous post: My #HER Story). So, just when I thought that she, my date from two days ago, was not interested in me at all, she suddenly approach me with a drink in her hands. We chatted, we danced and then she kissed me, very decidedly, just like two days before! I immediately liked her determination and self-confidence… and we kept on kissing for a bit longer. However, it was almost the end of the night and I wa ..read more

Few weeks ago, I went on a date with a girl that I met on #HER, a new dating app for women. I wasn’t very keen on trying one more time online dating after my past failures (just read any of my previous post such as Two online dates in one night or my post about the dark side of online dating). But, this 2017 I was feeling overly optimistic, just as a Canadian on a summer day. I guess that after reading the book “Raising Strong” from Brené Brown I was mentally ready for a new challenge The quote from the book that made go back to online dating again and make the effort of meeting up with a s ..read more

Few days ago, I was talking to one of my housemates about love and dating when he explained to me his latest epiphany about love. According to him, this simple idea has revolutionized his dating life and I would like to share his wisdom with my readers. You can decide for yourself whether it is good or bad advice and perhaps, you could even try it for a while and see if it works for you or not. More than a story, this is a conversation that went as follows: “I had it all wrong… I used have a type and like certain guys but they never liked me back… I used to fall for men that were not intere ..read more

Winter in a small town as a single lesbian can get boring, so in a ludicrous attempt to fulfill my lack of current romance, I decided to embrace in a silly mission: finding out the shoe size of an attractive acquaintance. I guess that my little adventure was unconsciously driven by my need to find evidence in the real world that confirmed my inner fear that “fairy tales are lies” and that “romance is dead”. I knew that sharing the shame shoe size with an available attractive fellow lesbian was statistically unlikely. Applying magical childish rules to the real world is crazy, but as Marilyn ..read more

She ticks all of the boxes for being the girl of my dreams but she still has to pass the Cinderella test. For a girl who likes shoes, it has always been my dream to find a girlfriend who shares my size so I would double the number of available pairs for me to wear in my wardrobe. Also, wearing someone’s shoes is an intimate experience, not only at a hygiene level (as your foot is sweating directly into the same space that another foot has sweat before), but it also has such a powerful symbolic implications that for me, it might be the ultimate expression of true love. My dream girl would no ..read more

“We need to find you a girl! Let’s go to a lesbian bar on Friday!” My straight housemate said with some nuance of compassion after telling me about her magical mini-holiday with her perfect boyfriend. Her words made me smile. Her active approach to quickly solve my lesbian spinsterhood in a one night plan was definitely well-intended, but perhaps slightly simplistic. It was coming from her naïve “straight” vision of the world. A place in where a girl can just walk into a bar on a Friday night with the right attitude and skirt length and find a competent romantic companion. However, the ‘hu ..read more

After meeting up the girl of my dreams one Friday night but screwing up my chances with her not once, but twice in a row in a very comical and socially awkward way (read previous posts to catch up with the story: Chatting up in the queue of the toilets, Chatting up from the distance and, How to ruin a second chance with a girl: a narrated guide), I had little expectations about getting a third chance with dreadlocks girl. I was ready to accept that “what starts off with the wrong foot will most likely end in a stumble” so I decided to move on and carried on with my life. Nevertheless, despi ..read more

They say that there is never a second chance to give a first impression. But, after being granted a second shot by dreadlocks girl, I was feeling confident that I could change the misconstrued womanizer image she had of me after my unfortunate texting mistake (read past posts: Chatting up in the queue for the toilets & Chatting up from the distance). However, despite of the fact that we regained contact, I didn’t manage to arrange a face-to-face encounter with her to redeem my faux pass until…   One Friday night, I was going out for a drink with some friends, when I bumped into dread ..read more

One lucky Friday night, I chatted up a dreadlocks goddess in the queue for the toilets. But of course, I ended up making a fool of myself by sending her a very misunderstanding message due to my natural ability to mix up names of newly introduced attractive girls (read previous post). This is how the story followed: I ended up grabbing a friendly drink that week with young photography-girl, the unintended receiver of a suggestive text meant for dreadlocks-girl. We mainly exchanged stories of common high school teachers and compared the time gap and different struggles of growing up in the s ..read more